Is this kosher?

[nmulax]

So to lay the groundwork;
• gf and I were supposed to move to Phoenix
• she ends it a week before the move because I wouldn't commit to marriage
• I move here on my own
• only person I know out here (Jeremy) knows both my ex and I. I start hanging out with him and his buddies
• 1 month later, she moves here
• she realizes her eff up and comes crawling back
• I explain I've lost trust in her, and am not sure if that's what I want
• we spend the next 2 months trying the friends thing (during which she says she doesn't want to push me, and if I need time, that's ok)
• labor day weekend:
I spend it in town with my family who came to visit
she heads to Mexico with Jeremy and his friends
• Monday: I can sense shit's off
• 20 min. ago: she calls "to be the first to tell me" she's seeing someone

While in Mexico, she started seeing one of Jeremy's buddies. A guy I've known since moving down here, who she just met 2 weeks ago, who knew she and I dated and that we were testing it out again.


I feel like I just got the f*cking wool pulled over my eyes, and want nothing more then to crack this kid.

[schneid4323]

Shotgun time

[schneid4323]

BTW, why the hell did you end things with her when she came back, dude if you want the chick then wtf did you do that!!! grrr.

[nmulax]

Originally Posted by schneid4323

BTW, why the hell did you end things with her when she came back, dude if you want the chick then wtf did you do that!!! grrr.

Because I don't know what I want.
Spend time with her, and want to be back with her; then spend time with her and realize how glad I am to be done with her. She knows me better then anyone else (guess that's a given after 3.5 years), but she's a handful (and not in a good way... in a stressful, I have to fix everything for her way).

[schneid4323]

Originally Posted by nmulax

Because I don't know what I want.
Spend time with her, and want to be back with her; then spend time with her and realize how glad I am to be done with her. She knows me better then anyone else (guess that's a given after 3.5 years), but she's a handful (and not in a good way... in a stressful, I have to fix everything for her way).

Find a new one, and smack that fucker then.

[///Matt]

"Ya Bitter?"

"yyyup. Bit HIM too."

[Kiemyster]

u know what does great? a nice 10 peice of og kush. then, hit up a club or a rave and get laid. dont look in the past, just keep pushing for a better future.

good luck with getting over her bro. u know we are all here for u.

[schneid4323]

Kie is terrible with women btw.

[Kiemyster]

^^^

true story.

[MoreCowbell]

[Booboo12]

that's about as kosher as this... http://www.thatimagesite.com/image/2762

[PresaMat]

Its time to get on the hoe train. Whenever I have a bad breakup i go out and fsck a ton of hoes. Usually while meeting all of the girls I find a decent one and we date.

My advice.

[schneid4323]

Originally Posted by PresaMat

Its time to get on the hoe train. Whenever I have a bad breakup i go out and fsck a ton of hoes. Usually while meeting all of the girls I find a decent one and we date.

My advice.

lol

[nmulax]

Originally Posted by MoreCowbell

haha... funny because I have some great pics I could share, but the pics are back in Detroit.

Originally Posted by PresaMat

Its time to get on the hoe train. Whenever I have a bad breakup i go out and fsck a ton of hoes. Usually while meeting all of the girls I find a decent one and we date.

My advice.

yeah, I think I'm going to head over to a show tomorrow night to see a few bands I like. hopefully by this weekend I'll have found a hottie or two to entertain me for a bit.

[007e92]

nothing gets you over the last one like the next one.

[Ninjaneer]

Move on. She might even be doing this to make you jealous (is it working?). And you've realized already that you remember the things that annoyed you when you're hanging out as friends, so in a way your "standards" have changed for the better cos now you got a better idea of what you're looking for. Those feelings of wanting her back probably stem from you dwelling too much on the positive memories and pulling the wool over your own eyes to avoid the negative issues that do bother you.

Just ignore her, or say "congrats, hope you find happiness." You might not mean it but the message to her is: "I'm moving on, enjoy."

You're also focusing on Jeremy's friend. Don't. It takes 2 to tango and if she was "working on it" the same way you were, she wouldn't have done this.

[dxb335d]

man she is the one taking you for a ride, not jeremys buddy, we are all males... get offered pussy we take it same as he did

she is the one emotionally tied to you... now im not saying go beat her up, you cant do that... but tell her to get the fcuk out of your life

go out in your nice 3 series and find a new woman

Carlos

[nmulax]

Originally Posted by Ninjaneer

Move on. She might even be doing this to make you jealous (is it working?). And you've realized already that you remember the things that annoyed you when you're hanging out as friends, so in a way your "standards" have changed for the better cos now you got a better idea of what you're looking for. Those feelings of wanting her back probably stem from you dwelling too much on the positive memories and pulling the wool over your own eyes to avoid the negative issues that do bother you.

Just ignore her, or say "congrats, hope you find happiness." You might not mean it but the message to her is: "I'm moving on, enjoy."

You're also focusing on Jeremy's friend. Don't. It takes 2 to tango and if she was "working on it" the same way you were, she wouldn't have done this.

Yeah, it's less the fact that she's seeing someone; more the fact that it's a "friend" of mine. I know it takes 2, but I lost any respect for this guy as well.

Oh well, time to enjoy being single.

[Gort]

This isn't the friend that's involved with your ex-gf is it? Because then it actually just might be Kosher.

[magmd]

1 girl hanging out in Mexico with a bunch of dudes...no suprise there.

Move on. And yeah...that guy is a total loser, picking to take some ass over a friend. He is basically reaffirming that he is just some dude you know...not a real friend. Don't waste any more time with that guy...its not worth it. But at least now you know who has your back....and who is just sitting back. Can't blame him...we all take the tail when we don't give a rats ass about anyone else.

[speedfreak81]

Sorry man, but unfortunately.....I would say that since this guy (Jeremy's friend) had no connection to you before you moved here then it's fair game. Not saying I would like it either, for obvious reasons. Not to mention if you all are in the same circle of friends you're going to have to see her with him on a regular basis.

If you had known the guy for a long while, and he knew your past with said female first hand....then I'd say YEAH...crack his head open. Just my $.02 take it as you wish.

-Brian

[mesier1111]

Originally Posted by nmulax

So to lay the groundwork;
• gf and I were supposed to move to Phoenix
• she ends it a week before the move because I wouldn't commit to marriage
• I move here on my own
• only person I know out here (Jeremy) knows both my ex and I. I start hanging out with him and his buddies
• 1 month later, she moves here
• she realizes her eff up and comes crawling back
• I explain I've lost trust in her, and am not sure if that's what I want
• we spend the next 2 months trying the friends thing (during which she says she doesn't want to push me, and if I need time, that's ok)
• labor day weekend:
I spend it in town with my family who came to visit
she heads to Mexico with Jeremy and his friends
• Monday: I can sense shit's off
• 20 min. ago: she calls "to be the first to tell me" she's seeing someone

While in Mexico, she started seeing one of Jeremy's buddies. A guy I've known since moving down here, who she just met 2 weeks ago, who knew she and I dated and that we were testing it out again.


I feel like I just got the f*cking wool pulled over my eyes, and want nothing more then to crack this kid.

I am a BIG believer in just walking away. That being said, I think its time to:

OPEN A CAN OF