Women were created to kill men... (tl;dr warning)

[NYCGP]

Originally Posted by KGB7

^^This.

You need to text her and tell her to stop calling you and leave you the fuck alone. Shes stringing you along for emotional support and is using you as a tampon. You have become her friend, a shoulder to cry on, and she will continue to do so until you man up and kick her to the curb.

She isn't calling me. We have spoke 3 times in the last 6 months. I am confused how you came to the conclusion that I am being strung along for emotional support. I am certainly not a shoulder to cry on.

[KGB7]

Originally Posted by NYCGP

She isn't calling me. We have spoke 3 times in the last 6 months. I am confused how you came to the conclusion that I am being strung along for emotional support. I am certainly not a shoulder to cry on.

I got a call from her. I didn't know who it was and I answer calls from random numbers all the time for work. So i just picked it up. She told me how much she loved me and missed me. She said she needed to know if I still loved her. She couldn't move on with her life knowing that I still loved her. What the fuck. She told me she was only marrying him because she couldn't be with me and she needed to find someone who loved her if she couldn't be with me. She wouldn't admit that she loved him. At this point, my head was spinning and I needed to get off the phone. I told her I needed to go.

[Elliott@DetailAddict]

Just fap and then think of her in bed with said fiance. Not worth the time anymore man. Put your focus on things in the present time and situation.

[Simsims]

your biggest mistake was keeping in touch with her

[number335]

I had no idea you were asian. So, can you live without her? Can you find someone else to love as much as you say you loved her? If you were fine before she called you, you should be okay to let her go.

[NYCGP]

Before last night I had not spoken to her in over 3 months. It had been almost 3 months since I had spoke to her before that. I had totally cut communications. I never called her or tried to contact her. I had no intention to speak to her ever again before this phone call last night.

Originally Posted by number335

I had no idea you were asian. So, can you live without her?

Obviously not azn. This isn't a relationship problem. I have lived without her for the last year plus.

Originally Posted by number335

Can you find someone else to love as much as you say you loved her? If you were fine before she called you, you should be okay to let her go.

I mean, I don't have a crystal ball. But I have no doubt I can find someone else to love as much as I loved her. I really thought I had completely let her go. I still feel I have. This was just a swift kick in the nuts that has completely caught me off guard.

[Quick6EF]

Once 3rd page is reached you should prolly post a pic

[number335]

I think she was having an emotional episode when she called you. Why wait till after she gets married to confess all this. It's like when drunk guys call ex girlfriends in the middle of the night, cuz they feel like they need to do that at that moment. Shit guys wouldn't do when they are sober and logical. Except women are always emotional and never logical.

[BMWinNorthdakota]

This thread=Proof that all females are literally bat shit crazy. Yes, all of them.

The trick is finding one that keeps her mouth shut and is a manageable amount of crazy. This bitch is neither of those.

Her true character is really shining bright in this situation, OP. This girl is essentially using someone else to get over you, a common place in our culture. But taking it as far as marriage... Are you kidding me? That's sadistic and raises some serious questions about her personal values and personality.

Okay, hypothetically speaking here, say you called the girl up right now and told her that you wanted to be with her and still love her, you wanted things how they used to be, and wanted her in NYC. She'd probably proceed to call off her little fling and come back with you...but for what?

What the fuck would you ever get out of it? A few good fucks and a garbage relationshit*? You'd have a little honeymoon period where it would be pure bliss and then shit would go right back to the way it used to be. Do you honestly think that you would go as far/want to marry someone as manipulative, thoughtless, and inconsiderate as this chick? Would you want your little girl to have character flaws like this female has (Assuming that you would have kids and that your offspring with her would be similar to her given a marriage).

Fuck no you don't. Run, run fast and far. This chick is crazy and looney bro.

[HungHingHK]

In order to get over her, what you need to do is imagine that guy you saw with her naked. Then imagine her naked. Then imagine him behind her doggy style. Then imagine his penis wrecking her snatch (imagine it close up like a porn). You'll b over it in no time

[NYCGP]

Originally Posted by BMWinNorthdakota

Do you honestly think that you would go as far/want to marry someone as manipulative, thoughtless, and inconsiderate as this chick? Would you want your little girl to have character flaws like this female has.

This is something I used to think about daily. I recognized many character issues that I would never want any child of mine to ever have.


I would never go back to her. Ever. I have been tempted all day to let her fiance know what just happened though. But I fear it will be viewed as spiteful. When I would be doing both him and her a huge favor.

[BTM]

Originally Posted by NYCGP

I would never go back to her. Ever. I have been tempted all day to let her fiance know what just happened though. But I fear it will be viewed as spiteful. When I would be doing both him and her a huge favor.

This will never work. He's gotta figure it out on his own. "Buyer beware."

[Grail05]

OP give it a try again... if you do still have feelings for her why not try it... and if it doesnt work again... then find someone better... not saying shes not better. sometimes you need to swallow your pride... not saying you do... everybody has that issue in the relationship... Trust...



certified relationship guru... LOL
but no i dont want anymore details about your relationship... your the only one answer your question...

apparently you are a bit bothered about whats going on by posting this thread... i suggest give it a try... one of you sure got a problem... we will never know...

there is always 2 side of the story...

[KGB7]

Originally Posted by NYCGP

This is something I used to think about daily. I recognized many character issues that I would never want any child of mine to ever have.


I would never go back to her. Ever. I have been tempted all day to let her fiance know what just happened though. But I fear it will be viewed as spiteful. When I would be doing both him and her a huge favor.

I think you should call him and tell him to put a leash on his bitch so she never contacts you again. You need to protect your self first at all cost, and thats never spiteful.

You will be doing your self a huge favor, not just for both of them.

[BMWinNorthdakota]

Originally Posted by NYCGP

This is something I used to think about daily. I recognized many character issues that I would never want any child of mine to ever have.


I would never go back to her. Ever. I have been tempted all day to let her fiance know what just happened though. But I fear it will be viewed as spiteful. When I would be doing both him and her a huge favor.

Alot of dudes don't, good.

Don't tell him, you do not owe him anything. All it would do is make this girl you speak of come sprinting back to you as opposed to the walk that she is at now. Oh, and this ^would only happen after goes totally ballistic on you.. I.e buying a ticket to NYC to ruin your life.

[M3Bahn]

Originally Posted by number335

I had no idea you were asian. So, can you live without her? Can you find someone else to love as much as you say you loved her? If you were fine before she called you, you should be okay to let her go.

[M3Bahn]

Originally Posted by Grant@DetailAddict

Just fap and then think of her in bed with said fiance. Not worth the time anymore man. Put your focus on things in the present time and situation.

Yeah picture her like this...

View post on imgur.com

[Wakka]

Originally Posted by NYCGP

This is something I used to think about daily. I recognized many character issues that I would never want any child of mine to ever have.


I would never go back to her. Ever. I have been tempted all day to let her fiance know what just happened though. But I fear it will be viewed as spiteful. When I would be doing both him and her a huge favor.

Yeah its time to just cut contact with this girl vin. You shouldnt even need to make a thread about this, youre better then that.

[AngelinIsRich08]

Tell her fiancée to get her CPO'd.

[dziqsek]

OP: think about it plainly like this :

- Do you REALLY think you CAN make out again, when you keep in mind that she can do to you just the same as she do to her actual fiance in some amount of time ?

- Do you want to be part of life of someone whos feelings are so unstable ?

- And the most important thing... do you really want to kiss her again when keeping in mind that not long ago her mouth may be or was full of someones semen, or cock?

I have one gold mind for you , that my father always say to me when i was teenager and always want to back to some girl that left me or i left her :

"never go in twice into the same rivercause it will never be the same. First time can be fun, chill and nice but second time it can suddenly kill you "

Its modified Heraklitos golden mind

[solefald]

Originally Posted by panicos81

why dont you move to florida if you love her??

Thats a no go. He would have to change his username.

[panicos81]

Originally Posted by solefald

Thats a no go. He would have to change his username.

lol true..