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01-24-2023, 05:25 PM | #8207 | |
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So what's left? I wouldn't say, hey you're a fat f... lose weight asap. I would however say, you should probably watch your weight and should eat less, exercise etc because you could be creating health issues for yourself. Am I a bad friend because I may have hurt someone's feelings or am I an amazing friend that may have changed someone's life? I know what CNN would label me as
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01-24-2023, 05:41 PM | #8208 | |
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01-26-2023, 05:41 PM | #8210 | |
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Nope. Another trip around the sun for me ….. and I’m not allowed botox to hide the evidence….27 more weeks to go |
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01-27-2023, 12:53 PM | #8214 |
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Tinder is a dumpster fire. Ive used Bumble and have tried using travel mode which allows you to change your location. Ive been learning Japanese and German and its helped to learn but Ive also met great women. Average looking dude here at best but plenty of matches when I would change my location. Locally though its much more difficult to find matches unless theyre much older than me, divorced, or single moms.
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01-31-2023, 11:12 PM | #8215 |
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02-01-2023, 01:17 AM | #8216 | |
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02-01-2023, 07:10 AM | #8217 | |
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The thing with going in cold is we just ended up sleeping together and finding out we had fuck all in common. I mean that is the issue right? Can you look at someone and tell what they are like, what they are into, etc? It was always like this flow chart 1. Im attracted to her, chat her up. 2. Ok, we can hold a conversation, but were both out with friends and it stays light, I gotta get her number. 3. Ok, we can maintain a few dates as we talk about pasts, futures, but everyone is still putting their best foot forward so its hard to tell 4. A few weeks later I realize I don't actually know this person or she as saying she is into X because she was into me, should I keep going? The apps, at least with the honest ones, its like a job posting. Everyone just puts their pros and cons out there from the get. Sure people can lie but it seems like they are so bad at it you can spot a BS profile a mile away. |
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02-01-2023, 07:38 AM | #8218 | |
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02-01-2023, 09:43 AM | #8219 | |
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Also know that Linkedin gets 600 applicants for one job at times... 90% of them are completely non starters (out of country, entirely unqualified etc)... another 10% may be qualified... 5% may get a resume reviewed by a hiring manager and at best 5 will get an interiview and that's already high... If we translate that to dating apps... it doesn't look so good... The problem with the app is... what is stopping the girl from looking and looking and looking? Thinking there is ALWAYS something better... the answer is almost nothing... so while I went on a few dates I knew these chicks were always talking to like 10 other guys... now how is this supposed to work? That's not how it worked back in the day.
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02-01-2023, 09:50 AM | #8220 | |
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02-01-2023, 09:55 AM | #8221 | |
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it doesn't work either way lol... and finding a Normal girl with a Normal Job (nurse, secretary, whatever) and no past is virtually impossible lol
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I do feel like real life connections work if you're say, part of some class or hobby group. Or you meet a friend of a friend in a social setting, wedding, etc. I know some couples who met that way. Maybe it's time for me to join Barry's gym loll.
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02-01-2023, 12:42 PM | #8226 | |
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Lot of entertainment/artsy/hippie wannabes here too. If you're looking to date a doctor, investment banker, attorney, software engineer, etc. it's tough.
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Every single chick I've approached when out, especially at bars, is at best something along those lines. Hinge isn't much better.
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