Tinder/Dating Apps

[leopard print]

I was chatting up with a pretty hot girl on POF and she finally asked to exchange numbers. A couple days later I notice her profile went missing so I asked her about it. She said some guys flagged her for blocking them (not sure how she would know that). I made an obvious joke about her being a catfish. Radio silence ever since. Haha.

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by silvergray545

That's why I said I never took that app seriously. It's the same bullshit, time after time. I feel bad for anyone that is seriously using it for dating.

This.

99% of the people on a Tinder/Bumble are the same exact person mentally.

[EALm4]

Originally Posted by leopard print

I was chatting up with a pretty hot girl on POF and she finally asked to exchange numbers. A couple days later I notice her profile went missing so I asked her about it. She said some guys flagged her for blocking them (not sure how she would know that). I made an obvious joke about her being a catfish. Radio silence ever since. Haha.

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by Aatish

This.

99% of the people on a Tinder/Bumble are the same exact person mentally.

Think I already agreed with you on this bhai, but I'll reaffirm my agreement lol

EXACTLY the same

Same dependency issues, same monkey-branching interests, same emotional inconsistency, same weak-mindedness, same disloyalty...list goes on and on...

Not bragging at all, just saying, I've been on 100+ tinder and bumble dates over a period of one year, time and time again, I've found your statement to be 100% true

[EALm4]

Originally Posted by TheAxiom

Are you paying? Unless she's your GF, that's WAY too generous.

Fuck no...you kidding me?!!
The agreement was we 50/50 on the generals expenses then things here and there.

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by TheAxiom

Creampie rant? Link...

1. Way too much time and effort put into a program that is Female-centric. They have all the control, and are able to Value/Devalue your time at their whim. So either accept that it's the case or do something about it.

2. It works (it's worked for you) but unlike a woman, guys just have to play the game longer for better odds.

Truth.

But the real issue here is "What are you looking for?" if it's an easy hookup, I mean Tinder is better/easier/cheaper than any bar game.

If you're (they) looking for something more tangable, maybe you'd want to consider a pay-to-play website like Match.com, it will weed out a couple of undesirables and possibly match you closer to someone you'll actually want to see again.

Are you paying? Unless she's your GF, that's WAY too generous.

Yeah, that's the thing I hate about Tinder and Bumble the absolute most...I'm the furthest thing from a misogynist...but the idea of putting in a lot of your time and effort into simply holding a conversation with a chick, and then her disqualifying you at any point to her will...no fucking way, I'm done with that...

I have more self-esteem and respect for myself than that...

But to those fellas using these apps, all power to y'all, smoosh some dirty hoes for me

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by smoosh

Think I already agreed with you on this bhai, but I'll reaffirm my agreement lol

EXACTLY the same

Same dependency issues, same monkey-branching interests, same emotional inconsistency, same weak-mindedness, same disloyalty...list goes on and on...

Not bragging at all, just saying, I've been on 100+ tinder and bumble dates over a period of one year, time and time again, I've found your statement to be 100% true

Bhaila, don't worry, you're not bragging lol.

I stopped with that digital stuff because of the stuff you stated. What sucks is that even IRL, you still get hit with stupid crap like that. It's not a Tinder/Bumble problem, it's a generation problem.

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by smoosh

Yeah, that's the thing I hate about Tinder and Bumble the absolute most...I'm the furthest thing from a misogynist...but the idea of putting in a lot of your time and effort into simply holding a conversation with a chick, and then her disqualifying you at any point to her will...no fucking way, I'm done with that...

I have more self-esteem and respect for myself than that...

But to those fellas using these apps, all power to y'all, smoosh some dirty hoes for me

I chortled vigorously.

[The Choosey begger]

Originally Posted by TheAxiom

These tags are brutal.

Anyhow, I'm trying to kill time, any stories?

I was at a C store just now to get a Coca Cola, the guy in front of me item wouldn't scan, he said it must be free then.

I told him that's original, the cashier started laughing she said she heard that joke at least a thousand times.

[Taskmaster]

Originally Posted by smoosh

I have more self-esteem and respect for myself than that...

EXACTLY.

It's not misogyny that you know you're value as a person, and value your time. That's just some feminist neo-liberal bullshit that thinks equality is "women before men."

Not to say you can't use those programs and still respect yourself, but have realistic expectations use the system to your advantage. People - women don't owe you anything, and the same goes for your interaction with them.

[Taskmaster]

Originally Posted by anglo

I was at a C store just now to get a Coca Cola, the guy in front of me item wouldn't scan, he said it must be free then.

I told him that's original, the cashier started laughing she said she heard that joke at least a thousand times.

Hahaha

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

I chortled vigorously.

Oh no, misogyny is the dislike for women...

I like them so much I characterize them out of respect lol

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by smoosh

Oh no, misogyny is the dislike for women...

I like them so much I characterize them out of respect lol

Well... it is the dislike OR contempt of. With contempt being the belief that someone is beneath consideration. I was just being humorous (or trying). I know smoosh is a character you play on the innerwebz. It's cool.

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

Well... it is the dislike OR contempt of. With contempt being the belief that someone is beneath consideration. I was just being humorous (or trying). I know smoosh is a character you play on the innerwebz. It's cool.

I know you were trying to be funnyguy.jpeg lol...

[Axius]

I'm still waiting to find the princess on there that will let me fart in her face.

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

East coast already giving me
Better matches than the west.

This keeps up- we may have to find wifey out here.

[fravel]

Originally Posted by Aatish

I stopped with that digital stuff because of the stuff you stated. What sucks is that even IRL, you still get hit with stupid crap like that. It's not a Tinder/Bumble problem, it's a generation problem.

Yup. Somewhere along the line showing genuine interest in a woman has become code for "I'm a desperate creep, avoid me at all costs". Then women turn around and constantly complain about men being distant and unwilling to commit.

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Yep. I'm officially going to try to wine and dine this lady.

Or just get her endless amounts of nature and tequila. What wifey wants, wifey gets.

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

East coast already giving me
Better matches than the west.

This keeps up- we may have to find wifey out here.

Does Destiny have a child?

She has pretty eyes and brows.

[swagon]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Does Destiny have a child?

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[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

Yep. I'm officially going to try to wine and dine this lady.

Or just get her endless amounts of nature and tequila. What wifey wants, wifey gets.

I will keep you in the will until this firms up a bit then you're out!!

[Aatish]

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