Bimmette interviews OT members by phone

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Billup

You don't need to use the internet to find a girl. The girl I'm talking to right now I met in the veggie section at the grocery store. The last one was at Target. All you need to do is..., talk to them. It's a lot easier than you might think.

Don't sell yourself short, anybody can be happening if you present yourself as someone that others want to be around.

Billy, you're preaching to a bunch of introverts. Wrong crowd, buddy

[SunnyD]

Originally Posted by Billup

You don't need to use the internet to find a girl. The girl I'm talking to right now I met in the veggie section at the grocery store. The last one was at Target.

You should check out the girls at WalMart next...I heard they're real thoroughbreds.

[Billup]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Billy, you're preaching to a bunch of introverts. Wrong crowd, buddy

Doh! I keep forgetting I'm on the internet sometimes. I'll just start telling everyone to use Tinder so they don't need to leave their home for human interaction.

I can't wait until our schedules line up. Everyone else has been so serious answering your questions. I need to change the pace here.

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Billy, you're preaching to a bunch of introverts. Wrong crowd, buddy

Hey - thats profiling....and profiling is wrong

...and I'm only introverted 50% of the time

[V1.47fan]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

Holy Shit...have we found a new Ra...?

I need advice from you on how to find a great woman and be in a great relationship, because you guys have been so successful at it.

You guys shouldn't feel sorry for Sara, she's happy.

[BMW F22]

Originally Posted by V1.47fan

I need advice from you on how to find a great woman and be in a great relationship, because you guys have been so successful at it.

You guys shouldn't feel sorry for Sara, she's happy.

What we're wondering is why you're always so quick to defend her. We don't hate her just so you know.

[Billup]

Originally Posted by V1.47fan

I need advice from you on how to find a great woman and be in a great relationship, because you guys have been so successful at it.

You guys shouldn't feel sorry for Sara, she's happy.

She's happy because she's retarded. So technically she's living on a false prophet in imagination land. She wants a guy from a successful family and has a great credit score. LOL. I'm so happy I run credit reports on all my dates before I go out so I can avoid this, too.


You want to find a great woman? Get off your ass and go meet them, go talk to them, ANYWHERE. Otherwise, you can hang out with your druggie girlfriend and think that great women don't exist.

[Inspired]

I think this would be a lot more exciting if it was a Facetime video

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Inspired

I think this would be a lot more exciting if it was a Facetime video

Whoever is willing, we will

[Inspired]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Whoever is willing, we will

Any volunteers?

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Inspired

Any volunteers?

There's one coming.

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by V1.47fan

I need advice from you on how to find a great woman and be in a great relationship, because you guys have been so successful at it.

You guys shouldn't feel sorry for Sara, she's happy.

(From your comments earlier) Get your girl help - REAL HELP. She'll always be an addict, so know this is a life struggle if you plan a long term relationship.

If you two are not meant to be together - don't look for women in bars...anywhere, but not in a bar...

Focus on you and let life happen...you can't make others happy unless you are happy with yourself first.

[V1.47fan]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Sorry, I’ll decline that offer based on the fact that if Sara is your type, then I’m not for you.



Self-destructive because she likely has a cycle of being with good-looking, wealthy, powerful men who are mentally/physically abusive. This new Mr. Attorney doesn’t seem into her and yet she’s chasing him. The guy who is probably a nice guy for her, is the neighbor who was washing her car recently. I have nothing personally against Sara. I feel bad for her and I just want her to see the light.



As for me, I’m not gonna post my whole private life on here because I’m not anonymous. But I’m content with my life at the moment, thanks. I don’t need therapy but there is no shame in it, for those who do.



Ok, you got me there. I do ask for advice and not take it. I need a new bumper as my front lip just got ripped off and everyone says M-sport but I want something more unique, yet affordable. Hehe.



Your girl needs help with her addiction. Support her in getting help and if she refuses, you really should detach yourself from her. Good luck with that, sincerely.

You know what's sad, Sara has never disparaged or judged you, lips or Billup but lately you've been passive aggressive toward her.

I'm not goin to front like some goody two shoes, I'm not perfect. Do i keep making mistakes in my personal life? Sure.

The problem with Sara, she's too sincere, some of the very people she confided in , turned around and betrayed her, oh because she didn't take their advice.

[V1.47fan]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

(From your comments earlier) Get your girl help - REAL HELP. She'll always be an addict, so know this is a life struggle if you plan a long term relationship.

If you two are not meant to be together - don't look for women in bars...anywhere, but not in a bar...

Focus on you and let life happen...you can't make others happy unless you are happy with yourself first.

Are you married?

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by V1.47fan

You know what's sad, Sara has never disparaged or judged you, lips or Billup but lately you've been passive aggressive toward her.

I'm not goin to front like some goody two shoes, I'm not perfect. Do i keep making mistakes in my personal life? Sure.

The problem with Sara, she's too sincere, some of the very people she confided in , turned around and betrayed her, oh because she didn't take their advice.

Ok, if you want to believe that.
I'll remind you that I've offered to help pay for her therapy. I want to help her. She was in an abusive relationship and is not making the smartest decisions. If she is truly happy, then that's a different story. But she has stated that she's not and doesn't want to be a lonely old cat lady.

[MrPrena]

I am a member of massive amount of forums, and there are always attention whores. Typical ones uses:
-Sob stories (family tragedies, death, layoffs, etc) to gain attn and or sympathy. Some jerkoff at local forums actually ripoff other members with that f***n excuses.
-Getting close to top 10 senior and/or active members, and share real OR fake stories about themselves.
-I am better/richer/smarter than you approach, AND also contribute fair amount of service and info to forum and forum members.

I believe after several tenured members getting banned and/or leaving the OT, it did get bored a little. However Sara DID brought odd&end stories (regardless of real or fake) to get members going a little.

Now, I would rather have interview type of fun thread instead of some fictional (or real sob) stories about themselves.

<--SOB
<-- FUN

Originally Posted by V1.47fan

Never be bullied into Silence.

ACCEPT NO ONE'S DEFINITION OF YOUR LIFE.

Define yourself.

Originally Posted by Templar

White knight harder.

No one is trying to "silence" her. We are essentially being given the option to hear her in an interview or not and we are choosing not to. She can continue to post her nonsense in her thread all she wants. Doesn't mean we have to respond to it or even read it.

Originally Posted by bimmette

You fascinate me. You see the mistakes she makes and how she won't listen to our advice, and continues on her self-destructive path and you still champion for her like crazy. She admits to needing therapy but won't get help. Hell, we even offered to help pay for the initial session. I was disappointed when she ignored that. Sure we aren't perfect, but we don't come on here asking for advice and then ignore it.
I'm still undecided if I should interview her or not. Who knows if she'd even be up for it.

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by V1.47fan

Are you married?

Yes - HAPPILY with my soul mate for 20 years.

Was a DOG in college, and a couple years after while playing ball for a living - then met a 6'1" blonde goddess and the rest was history...

[BMW F22]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

Yes - HAPPILY with my soul mate for 20 years.

Was a DOG in college, and a couple years after while playing ball for a living - then met a 6'1" blonde goddess and the rest was history...

She has a younger, a little shorter sister that you can hook me up with?

[ASBSECU E93]

...no more of this relationship talk in bimmette interview thread...take this back to the drama thread and discuss there...

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by BMW F22

She has a younger, a little shorter sister that you can hook me up with?

She has a younger brother...if that's your thing

[BMW F22]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

...no more of this relationship talk in bimmette interview thread...take this back to the drama thread and discuss there...

Awww...

[BMW F22]

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

She has a younger brother...if that's your thing

Hmm...I'll take it!!