What's Your Attachment Style

floridaorange · 09-12-2022, 08:47 PM

Sounds like your dismissing and avoiding the results

(joke)…..

"Adults with an avoidant-dismissive insecure attachment style are the opposite of those who are ambivalent or anxious-preoccupied. Instead of craving intimacy, they're so wary of closeness they try to avoid emotional connection with others. They'd rather not rely on others, or have others rely on them."

^Seems fairly common.

tranquility · 09-12-2022, 11:28 PM

HEY HEY HEY, I'm just dismissive/avoidant, none of that insecure crap LOL.

wtwo3 · 09-13-2022, 06:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by floridaorange

Sounds like your dismissing and avoiding the results

(joke)…..

"Adults with an avoidant-dismissive insecure attachment style are the opposite of those who are ambivalent or anxious-preoccupied. Instead of craving intimacy, they're so wary of closeness they try to avoid emotional connection with others. They'd rather not rely on others, or have others rely on them."

^Seems fairly common.

that..... describes me well

floridaorange · 09-13-2022, 06:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tranquility

HEY HEY HEY, I'm just dismissive/avoidant, none of that insecure crap LOL.

tranquility · 09-13-2022, 01:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by floridaorange

"Adults with an avoidant-dismissive insecure attachment style are the opposite of those who are ambivalent or anxious-preoccupied. Instead of craving intimacy, they're so wary of closeness they try to avoid emotional connection with others. They'd rather not rely on others, or have others rely on them."

Srsly though, it's partially right but it's off in another area, i.e. I crave intimacy, I'm not emotionally-detached. However, that last sentence is pretty spot-on, I value being totally self-reliant/sufficient and do not want to burden others, so on the flipside I sometimes get annoyed if others come running to me...well, it depends on the situation, if it's something I think is trivial, yes, I get annoyed, if it's srs, ofc I won't feel that way and will help if I can.

3.0L · 09-13-2022, 08:25 PM

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