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09-06-2018, 09:30 AM | #111 | |
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I told her I wasn't a very competitive person when we were dating. After a few years she decided I was lying through my teeth because I was the most competitive person she's ever met. ![]() |
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09-06-2018, 10:24 AM | #112 | |
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09-06-2018, 10:47 AM | #113 | |
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But what makes you think giving people the silent treatment is alright? You went 2 full days (and maybe would go longer if she hadn't pushed for it) without replying. Why not man up and have an open conversation about what you want? |
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09-06-2018, 11:28 AM | #115 | |
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I used to be a really nice guy but online dating turned me into a fucking asshole. A majority of women in their 20s on these dating apps are garbage people in my experience, so they will be treated accordingly. |
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09-06-2018, 12:30 PM | #116 | |
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I'll overlook the asinine comments made because I'm in a good mood today and refuse to go on a reign of terror. The only thing I learned from this experience is that she was self absorbed. The fact that you feel that you have any insight to offer me is laughable. Last edited by Now_Rudi; 09-06-2018 at 12:37 PM.. |
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09-06-2018, 12:55 PM | #119 | |
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Women do this ghosting shit too & it's super immature & says all we need to know, more than actual words could, about how shitty of a person these clowns are. Don't be that guy. |
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09-06-2018, 12:58 PM | #121 | |
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They never reply. Cowards. |
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09-06-2018, 12:59 PM | #122 | ||
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but to answer your question, yeah maybe it wasnt the greatest thing to do. but look at it this way - if someone was being this pushy literally after 2 days and meeting up twice what would be your response? if you were to send that text earlier chances are she'd blame you for thinking too forward and getting ahead of yourself and you'd be the one "to blame". without knowing someone as much as i'd like to this was my best option and i do not regret going this route. Quote:
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09-06-2018, 01:01 PM | #123 | |
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09-06-2018, 01:05 PM | #124 | |
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but honestly i thought that was the way to do things back a few months ago, at least for that girl. i was never really interested in her so it wasn't a high stake thing so in a sense i just never got around to give enough fucks. now i know these aren't reasonable justifications but it was my thought process ![]() |
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09-06-2018, 01:11 PM | #125 | ||
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My only problem is the lack of consideration for other people. Not to flog a dead horse, but in your texts the girl seemed into you, you had a couple of dates and nobody knows what you conversed etc. She showed insecurity as we all have, she exposed that. I'm always for calling people up and talking about what happened and what I want and feel. I always do that regardless. If they're going to make fun of me, or think I'm ahead of myself etc, too bad, it wasn't meant to be. We all have insecurities but working on our own self-esteem without ruining others is the name of the game. Again, it looks like you see how that could be bad for her and for you if the situation was inverted, and know exactly what you want! Keep going man, nobody is perfect. Not trying to talk down on you as well. ![]() |
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![]() I now make most of the decisions concerning food, which usually means I'm grilling something. .......did I mention she has an amazing body, she's submissive and the sex is amazing? ![]() |
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09-06-2018, 02:42 PM | #127 | |
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![]() I didn't really have any ghosting or any issues when I was dating a few years back. I figure I will show some decency and if they don't they are not the one for me. Found myself a great wife in the process.
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![]() Well, I guess he does provide the meat.... But yeah, otherwise, sounds pretty one sided! (lest you actually start liking me "Judy") |
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09-06-2018, 03:31 PM | #131 | ||
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Meh, not really. She goes out of her way to do special stuff for me when I need. She did spend all day in the ER with me on Thanksgiving. Also took the day off to drive my wheels to the mechanic when I swapped wheels a few months ago. I do miss having more of a playful/fun connection with someone. It does seem like I am the one who is in control all the time. Quote:
Not really any point in me changing anything at the moment. I plan on selling my house and relocating in a couple of years. She knows this. No point in starting over in an area I don't plan to stay in. |
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09-06-2018, 03:42 PM | #132 | ||
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Least that's what I interpreted immediately. ![]() Quote:
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