July 31st is National Orgasm Day

RABAUKE · 07-30-2018, 08:21 AM

This from the Toronto Sun - I've just told my wife that I'm celebrating and hope that she joins in.

National Orgasm Day is coming - are you ready?
Simone Paget
Published:
July 30, 2018

Updated:
July 30, 2018 7:00 AM EDT

Filed Under:
Toronto SUN Life Sex Files

July 31st is National Orgasm Day – if you’re looking forward to, ahem, celebrating this very special holiday, the good news is that the orgasm gap is closing. SKYN condoms recently surveyed close to 4,000 sexuallly active people between the ages of 18 and 36, and found that 96% of respondents state they are reaching orgasm at least once during sex.

However, women are still falling slightly behind when it comes to the big ‘O.’ The survey found that 89% of women report typically having an orgasm during sex (compared to 98% of men) – a sign that while we’ve made progress in this area, there’s still work to be done.

“Not being able to orgasm is the Number One thing I hear from my female listeners – so it is pretty common. In movies and in television, it shows women orgasming from penetration alone, when really, only 15-30% of woman can climax in that way. Most of us need clitoral stimulation, or it’s not going to happen,” says Emily Morse, LifeStyles spokesperson, sexologist and host of the Sex With Emily podcast.

If having more or better orgasms is on your to-do list this summer, here are a few expert tips.

1. Start by exploring your own body and what feels good.

As RuPaul says, “if you can’t love yourself how the hell you gonna love somebody else.” The same philosophy applies to sexual pleasure. As Morse shares, “Women who master their own masturbation routine will come closer to reaching the Big O every time. Take pleasure into your own hands and become the expert of your own body.” Be patient and go slow. “Start with the goal of exploring your body in search of those epic hot spots or erogenous zones instead of orgasm,” says Morse.

2. Have your partner give a helping hand.

As Morse reminds us, most women require at least some clitoral stimulation to orgasm. “So you or your partner should give yourselves a helping hand. There seems to be this stigma that if you can’t orgasm from penetration, than there’s something wrong, but that’s just not the case,” says Morse.

3. Introduce some toys into the mix.

As Morse shares, “toys are a great accessory to add to your sexual health repertoire—especially if you’ve been close to orgasm but never crossed over that climatic threshold,” says Morse.

Morse suggests starting small with a toy that targets the clitoris. “The Womanizer 2go or the We-Vibe Touch are perfect for that needed clitoral stimulation. Plus, they are on the smaller side, so using it with a partner won’t be hard to maneuver,” she says.

5. Don’t skimp on the lube.

Whether you’re playing solo or with a partner, lubricant is important — and not just for moisture. “Women who use lube are more likely to reach orgasm because of the extra sensations it adds. I recommend something like System JO’s H2O line or Foria Awaken – an intimate massage oil that uses CBD extract to really relax the body,” says Morse.

6. Be kind to yourself.

When we’re acutely focused on having an orgasm, it’s easy to get psyched out. Go easy on yourself. “When we remove the pressure to orgasm, our minds can relax into the experience and be open to those feel-good sensations,” says Morse.

7. Make sure you feel safe and respected by your partner.

Lastly, it’s difficult to focus on pleasure when you’re worried about your physical or mental wellbeing. “When we feel safe, it allows us to let go of our inhibitions and really relax, which makes for more satisfying sex. That’s why it’s so important to have the STD/STI talk and use protection,” says Morse.

It’s also important to set the stage. Make sure you’re relaxed and in a place where you’re not going to be interrupted. Keep lubricant, toys and safer sex methods handy. A little bit of advance prep will allow you to be present and enjoy the experience.

dinonz · 07-30-2018, 11:09 AM

July 31st is my birthday, and I bet I still won't get any action

are0lies · 07-30-2018, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by RABAUKE

This from the Toronto Sun - I've just told my wife that I'm celebrating and hope that she joins in.

National Orgasm Day is cumming - are you ready?
Simone Paget
Published:
July 30, 2018

Updated:
July 30, 2018 7:00 AM EDT

Filed Under:
Toronto SUN Life Sex Files

July 31st is National Orgasm Day – if you’re looking forward to, ahem, celebrating this very special holiday, the good news is that the orgasm gap is closing. SKYN condoms recently surveyed close to 4,000 sexuallly active people between the ages of 18 and 36, and found that 96% of respondents state they are reaching orgasm at least once during sex.

However, women are still falling slightly behind when it comes to the big ‘O.’ The survey found that 89% of women report typically having an orgasm during sex (compared to 98% of men) – a sign that while we’ve made progress in this area, there’s still work to be done.

“Not being able to orgasm is the Number One thing I hear from my female listeners – so it is pretty common. In movies and in television, it shows women orgasming from penetration alone, when really, only 15-30% of woman can climax in that way. Most of us need clitoral stimulation, or it’s not going to happen,” says Emily Morse, LifeStyles spokesperson, sexologist and host of the Sex With Emily podcast.

If having more or better orgasms is on your to-do list this summer, here are a few expert tips.

1. Start by exploring your own body and what feels good.

As RuPaul says, “if you can’t love yourself how the hell you gonna love somebody else.” The same philosophy applies to sexual pleasure. As Morse shares, “Women who master their own masturbation routine will come closer to reaching the Big O every time. Take pleasure into your own hands and become the expert of your own body.” Be patient and go slow. “Start with the goal of exploring your body in search of those epic hot spots or erogenous zones instead of orgasm,” says Morse.

2. Have your partner give a helping hand.

As Morse reminds us, most women require at least some clitoral stimulation to orgasm. “So you or your partner should give yourselves a helping hand. There seems to be this stigma that if you can’t orgasm from penetration, than there’s something wrong, but that’s just not the case,” says Morse.

3. Introduce some toys into the mix.

As Morse shares, “toys are a great accessory to add to your sexual health repertoire—especially if you’ve been close to orgasm but never crossed over that climatic threshold,” says Morse.

Morse suggests starting small with a toy that targets the clitoris. “The Womanizer 2go or the We-Vibe Touch are perfect for that needed clitoral stimulation. Plus, they are on the smaller side, so using it with a partner won’t be hard to maneuver,” she says.

5. Don’t skimp on the lube.

Whether you’re playing solo or with a partner, lubricant is important — and not just for moisture. “Women who use lube are more likely to reach orgasm because of the extra sensations it adds. I recommend something like System JO’s H2O line or Foria Awaken – an intimate massage oil that uses CBD extract to really relax the body,” says Morse.

6. Be kind to yourself.

When we’re acutely focused on having an orgasm, it’s easy to get psyched out. Go easy on yourself. “When we remove the pressure to orgasm, our minds can relax into the experience and be open to those feel-good sensations,” says Morse.

7. Make sure you feel safe and respected by your partner.

Lastly, it’s difficult to focus on pleasure when you’re worried about your physical or mental wellbeing. “When we feel safe, it allows us to let go of our inhibitions and really relax, which makes for more satisfying sex. That’s why it’s so important to have the STD/STI talk and use protection,” says Morse.

It’s also important to set the stage. Make sure you’re relaxed and in a place where you’re not going to be interrupted. Keep lubricant, toys and safer sex methods handy. A little bit of advance prep will allow you to be present and enjoy the experience.

FTFY

KenB925 · 07-30-2018, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by dinonz

July 31st is my birthday, and I bet I still won't get any action

Congratulations, how long have you been married?

RABAUKE · 07-30-2018, 12:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dinonz

July 31st is my birthday, and I bet I still won't get any action

You may have to take matters into your own hands.....

Lups · 07-30-2018, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by KenB925

Congratulations, how long have you been married?

Too cruel!! True, but too fucking cruel.

UncleWede · 07-30-2018, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by dinonz

July 31st is my birthday, and I bet I still won't get any action

I have to wait 2 more days to not get any

Never_Enough · 07-30-2018, 02:51 PM

Maybe I'll bang Rosie tomorrow

Captain Blood · 07-30-2018, 02:54 PM

For many...a self fulfilling prophecy?

dinonz · 07-30-2018, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by KenB925

Congratulations, how long have you been married?

I'm not - I'm just short, fat and ugly.

dinonz · 07-30-2018, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by RABAUKE

You may have to take matters into your own hands.....

Don't knock it - it's sex with someone you love!

dinonz · 07-30-2018, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by UncleWede

I have to wait 2 more days to not get any

Damn. I feel your pain.

1MOREMOD · 07-30-2018, 07:24 PM

Is this a Canadian thing or can we contribute? Should have coincided with whack off Wednesday.

dinonz · 07-30-2018, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Never_Enough

Maybe I'll bang Rosie tomorrow

I was thinking Mrs Palmer and her 5 daughters.

Haywood · 07-30-2018, 07:27 PM

I hate that there's a "day" for everything (who makes this stuff up?), but this is one day I can lend a hand to!

zx10guy · 07-30-2018, 07:30 PM

Or two....

dinonz · 07-30-2018, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

I this a Canadian thing or can we contribute? Should have coincided with whack off Wednesday.

For some this will continue over into Wednesday.

RABAUKE · 07-30-2018, 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dinonz

Don't knock it - it's sex with someone you love!

If you can't be with the one you love, Love the one you're with.....

KenB925 · 07-30-2018, 09:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dinonz

Don't knock it - it's sex with someone you love!

and the only one you can trust

ShopVac · 07-30-2018, 09:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dinonz

July 31st is my birthday, and I bet I still won't get any action

And mines the 1st. Married 22 years now...so, same here

The Wind Breezes · 07-30-2018, 10:00 PM

What bullshit commercialism. I'll make sure not to have any orgasms tomorrow. Who's with me?

1MOREMOD · 07-30-2018, 10:28 PM

I'm gonna go for extra credit and shoot it over the border

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