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      07-21-2021, 09:01 AM   #9439
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If it flies, floats or fucks, its much cheaper to rent.

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I guess. But since I tend to go after girls who have their own shit they tend to put their own skin in the game. AKA picking up meals, buying gifts, flights, etc. Despite even my protestations the current girl does what she can to try and stay 50/50. I could see if you're flashing cash at gold diggers or sugar babies.

Also the big expenses are, well, expected. Going on a trip, well, if you want a girlfriend for the trip you're still spending $3k on the trip and THEN paying for the girlfriend, whereas Im not paying that additional expense. So the math doesn't seem to add up. The only guys I know (who have admitted to) getting a call girl were the single ones who wanted some company on a trip like to vegas or the beach. If youre in a relationship and trips like that arent already fuck fests then youre in the wrong relationship.

Not that it would ever work for me, Im a low-level germaphobe so the whole argument is untenable to me.
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I'm a huge fan of Destin. I've been going there since I was 17 and it just gets better and better.
Especially as you head a little east. That pic is Santa Rosa, almost halfway to PCB. Quiet, you can get a condo right on the water easy, never super busy and the water is regularly insanely clean.

It also doesnt hurt its such a simple drive from Atlanta taking a Friday or Monday off makes it a "why not?"
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Especially as you head a little east. That pic is Santa Rosa, almost halfway to PCB. Quiet, you can get a condo right on the water easy, never super busy and the water is regularly insanely clean.

It also doesnt hurt its such a simple drive from Atlanta taking a Friday or Monday off makes it a "why not?"
Absolutely. One of my best friends has a place in SR in one of the high-rises on the beach and it is the best. The GF has a place in Tampa right on the water, as well. Not that was an influence in dating her, at all. Nope. Not one bit.
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I thought you were past the storm, things had settle down.
We were and they were. We have both made great strides in our relationship. It isn't as if we discuss topics and then they get pushed aside. We both do our fair share of the responsibility of staying true to what we discussed and decided upon together. I feel there is a root cause of the issue. It isn't because the care for one another isn't there, but something mentally on her end keeps her guarded. We talked at length last night and I explained how difficult it is for a person to give 110% all while the other person stayed guarded. We still have much to discuss, before we reach an end decision that works for both of us. Whether we end up breaking up or becoming better partners, we both have to do what is best for our emotional and mental health first and foremost.
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We were and they were. We have both made great strides in our relationship. It isn't as if we discuss topics and then they get pushed aside. We both do our fair share of the responsibility of staying true to what we discussed and decided upon together. I feel there is a root cause of the issue. It isn't because the care for one another isn't there, but something mentally on her end keeps her guarded. We talked at length last night and I explained how difficult it is for a person to give 110% all while the other person stayed guarded. We still have much to discuss, before we reach an end decision that works for both of us. Whether we end up breaking up or becoming better partners, we both have to do what is best for our emotional and mental health first and foremost.
I hear you.
Here in Germany the pandemic and lockdowns had brought few relationships and marriages to an end in-between some of our friends.
Onto one hand this shows me, that they had never really been so damn close together that they are be able to withstand the forced closeness.
On the flipside a further thesis would be, that some anger had grown hidden and the lockdowns had released them.

My personal opinion is, that getting into a relationship under the current situation is an advanced test for both of them. When you are never forced to live so close to another, you have to change you mind and skip maybe long enjoyed habits or you wouldnt make it.
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We were and they were. We have both made great strides in our relationship. It isn't as if we discuss topics and then they get pushed aside. We both do our fair share of the responsibility of staying true to what we discussed and decided upon together. I feel there is a root cause of the issue. It isn't because the care for one another isn't there, but something mentally on her end keeps her guarded. We talked at length last night and I explained how difficult it is for a person to give 110% all while the other person stayed guarded. We still have much to discuss, before we reach an end decision that works for both of us. Whether we end up breaking up or becoming better partners, we both have to do what is best for our emotional and mental health first and foremost.
so she has trust issues where she is holding back, has the wall up!
She wont be happy with you or anyone if she is not willing to let her guard down.
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Gotta be gulf coast. Basically from Destin east it just gets better and better probably peaking at Sarasota because Florida blocks most of the wind and waves, keeping everything soft and clean.

My home away from home, I really recommend it

Is this right outside of the Whale's Tail across the street from Seascape in Destin? That's where I spent my summers for 20 years. I loved it.

Now I live in S. FL, but can't convince my wife to go from the beach we live to visit another beach lol. She's a south FL native
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so she has trust issues where she is holding back, has the wall up!
She wont be happy with you or anyone if she is not willing to let her guard down.
I said the exact same thing last night. "If you want to be with me, you have to give as much as I do and you have to trust me as much as I trust you. It's all in or it's nothing."
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I said the exact same thing last night. "If you want to be with me, you have to give as much as I do and you have to trust me as much as I trust you. It's all in or it's nothing."
This is critical. With my current, gf, we decided to have a long and open conversation about the good, the bad, and the ugly from our entire lives. It was one of the most cathartic experiences I've ever had and served as the foundation of what we have now. I've had connections with others, even recently before her, and the major difference is the following: This is easy. The passion of the past is there but an ease of being and openness exist with her that I've never had before. She says the same thing. This openness leads to a level of trust that is the best I've ever experienced.

Your lady has to give as much as you and be as open as you or it is all for nothing. I really wish you the best, my friend. You are one of the good ones.
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Is this right outside of the Whale's Tail across the street from Seascape in Destin? That's where I spent my summers for 20 years. I loved it.

Now I live in S. FL, but can't convince my wife to go from the beach we live to visit another beach lol. She's a south FL native
No its in Santa Rosa off 30a.

https://goo.gl/maps/qnisb691vBbiCXFV7

Dont blame you though, it all looks like that. Ive been as far west as Henderson Park Inn (used to rent a corner suite there on the reg before doing condos).
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This is critical. With my current, gf, we decided to have a long and open conversation about the good, the bad, and the ugly from our entire lives. It was one of the most cathartic experiences I've ever had and served as the foundation of what we have now. I've had connections with others, even recently before her, and the major difference is the following: This is easy. The passion of the past is there but an ease of being and openness exist with her that I've never had before. She says the same thing. This openness leads to a level of trust that is the best I've ever experienced.

Your lady has to give as much as you and be as open as you or it is all for nothing. I really wish you the best, my friend. You are one of the good ones.
Thank you MK. I truly appreciate that. I'm an odd one, when it comes to women. I'm way more transparent than a person would expect. For some, it's hard to tolerate and other's appreciate the fact that I have no filter. I just feel like being 100% open/honest, it creates that level of trust that you speak of. Even if a person doesn't believe what I say, because honestly, some of this shit is hard to believe, they are then forced to look back on my track record and then realize; I'm not full of shit. This, then, trickles down to other aspects of the relationship. Sex is great, but sex with someone who fully surrenders to you, is something all together different.
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This!
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Thank you MK. I truly appreciate that. I'm an odd one, when it comes to women. I'm way more transparent than a person would expect. For some, it's hard to tolerate and other's appreciate the fact that I have no filter. I just feel like being 100% open/honest, it creates that level of trust that you speak of. Even if a person doesn't believe what I say, because honestly, some of this shit is hard to believe, they are then forced to look back on my track record and then realize; I'm not full of shit. This, then, trickles down to other aspects of the relationship. Sex is great, but sex with someone who fully surrenders to you, is something all together different.
Spot on.

The mutual surrender makes the sex so amazing and this is the difference between my current and previous gf. The previous was always holding back and I later found out the reasons, which I won't go into here. If that trust isn't there, it permeates through every aspect of the relationship and limits everything that can be accomplished.
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No its in Santa Rosa off 30a.

https://goo.gl/maps/qnisb691vBbiCXFV7

Dont blame you though, it all looks like that. Ive been as far west as Henderson Park Inn (used to rent a corner suite there on the reg before doing condos).
Awe, I was so close! Even the umbrellas are similar to Seascape's.

Love this entire area and it's grown tremendously. I haven't been back in 8-9 yrs, so all the land to the East in Santa Rosa, that's been developed, was nothing but forest last time I was there.

OK, I'm done high-jacking the thread!
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I've been married for 15 years now to the same girl and I find this thread:

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Keep up the good work guys/girls!
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Spot on.

The mutual surrender makes the sex so amazing and this is the difference between my current and previous gf. The previous was always holding back and I later found out the reasons, which I won't go into here. I that trust isn't there, it permeates through every aspect of the relationship and limits everything that can be accomplished.
This. All of it.
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From what Ive heard from people who have partaken is the ones you really want arent actually that much cheaper, just easier.
Ease of use has a value, I guess...
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Ease of use has a value, I guess...
Cheaper to rent for one night than months to years on end.

However, you can rent per night via Tinder instead of scrounging lot lizards.
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Usually deep in crap. Yes. That is us.
You know, I was going to say "Balls deep, son" to the Doc initially, but then I thought...well, that's juvenile, and I'm far more mature than that...so I didn't.

But I mean, hey, if you are a back door person, that's fine - I know you are going to get respect from Sedan_Clan . He even keeps a collection of cleaning apparatuses for just these types of occasions.
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You know, I was going to say "Balls deep, son" to the Doc initially, but then I thought...well, that's juvenile, and I'm far more mature than that...so I didn't.

But I mean, hey, if you are a back door person, that's fine - I know you are going to get respect from Sedan_Clan . He even keeps a collection of cleaning apparatuses for just these types of occasions.
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