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07-21-2021, 09:01 AM | #9439 | |
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Also the big expenses are, well, expected. Going on a trip, well, if you want a girlfriend for the trip you're still spending $3k on the trip and THEN paying for the girlfriend, whereas Im not paying that additional expense. So the math doesn't seem to add up. The only guys I know (who have admitted to) getting a call girl were the single ones who wanted some company on a trip like to vegas or the beach. If youre in a relationship and trips like that arent already fuck fests then youre in the wrong relationship. Not that it would ever work for me, Im a low-level germaphobe so the whole argument is untenable to me. |
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07-21-2021, 09:03 AM | #9440 | |
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It also doesnt hurt its such a simple drive from Atlanta taking a Friday or Monday off makes it a "why not?" |
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07-21-2021, 09:12 AM | #9441 | |
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07-21-2021, 09:22 AM | #9442 |
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We were and they were. We have both made great strides in our relationship. It isn't as if we discuss topics and then they get pushed aside. We both do our fair share of the responsibility of staying true to what we discussed and decided upon together. I feel there is a root cause of the issue. It isn't because the care for one another isn't there, but something mentally on her end keeps her guarded. We talked at length last night and I explained how difficult it is for a person to give 110% all while the other person stayed guarded. We still have much to discuss, before we reach an end decision that works for both of us. Whether we end up breaking up or becoming better partners, we both have to do what is best for our emotional and mental health first and foremost.
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07-21-2021, 09:32 AM | #9443 | |
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Here in Germany the pandemic and lockdowns had brought few relationships and marriages to an end in-between some of our friends. Onto one hand this shows me, that they had never really been so damn close together that they are be able to withstand the forced closeness. On the flipside a further thesis would be, that some anger had grown hidden and the lockdowns had released them. My personal opinion is, that getting into a relationship under the current situation is an advanced test for both of them. When you are never forced to live so close to another, you have to change you mind and skip maybe long enjoyed habits or you wouldnt make it.
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07-21-2021, 09:32 AM | #9444 | |
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She wont be happy with you or anyone if she is not willing to let her guard down. |
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07-21-2021, 09:33 AM | #9445 | |
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Now I live in S. FL, but can't convince my wife to go from the beach we live to visit another beach lol. She's a south FL native
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07-21-2021, 09:41 AM | #9446 |
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I said the exact same thing last night. "If you want to be with me, you have to give as much as I do and you have to trust me as much as I trust you. It's all in or it's nothing."
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07-21-2021, 10:20 AM | #9447 | |
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Your lady has to give as much as you and be as open as you or it is all for nothing. I really wish you the best, my friend. You are one of the good ones.
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07-21-2021, 10:22 AM | #9448 | |
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https://goo.gl/maps/qnisb691vBbiCXFV7 Dont blame you though, it all looks like that. Ive been as far west as Henderson Park Inn (used to rent a corner suite there on the reg before doing condos). |
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07-21-2021, 10:31 AM | #9449 | |
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07-21-2021, 10:32 AM | #9450 | |
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07-21-2021, 11:13 AM | #9451 | |
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The mutual surrender makes the sex so amazing and this is the difference between my current and previous gf. The previous was always holding back and I later found out the reasons, which I won't go into here. If that trust isn't there, it permeates through every aspect of the relationship and limits everything that can be accomplished.
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Love this entire area and it's grown tremendously. I haven't been back in 8-9 yrs, so all the land to the East in Santa Rosa, that's been developed, was nothing but forest last time I was there. OK, I'm done high-jacking the thread!
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You know, I was going to say "Balls deep, son" to the Doc initially, but then I thought...well, that's juvenile, and I'm far more mature than that...so I didn't.
But I mean, hey, if you are a back door person, that's fine - I know you are going to get respect from Sedan_Clan . He even keeps a collection of cleaning apparatuses for just these types of occasions. |
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