Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by dinonz

Stupid?

Ooo, ease up on the rum buddy.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

Ooo, ease up on the rum buddy.

I wish It's 10:20am on Monday, and I'm stuck in isolation in New Zealand.

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

LOL, that makes no sense. Women do not determine whether or not a relationship will be established, that is up to the man.

Sarcasm?

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

No

Muslim?

I feel like dinonz and I might be intelligent enough to get the answer in this grand game of 21 questions we've just decided to play.

[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

Women do not determine whether or not a relationship will be established, that is up to the man.

Surely you jest.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Muslim?

I feel like dinonz and I might be intelligent enough to get the answer in this grand game of 21 questions we've just decided to play.

But I'm not using my intelligence. I'm stirring the pot

[ragingpanda]

Originally Posted by dinonz

Stupid?

I'm not married, so not really.

[ragingpanda]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

Surely you jest.

No, I don't.

Women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships. If a woman decides that she wants to have sex with me, that doesn't mean that she is my girlfriend.

It is pretty simple.

[Tambohamilton]

But if you decide you want a relationship with her, that doesn't necessarily make it so.

[Lady Jane]

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

Women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships. If a woman decides that she wants to have sex with me, that doesn't mean that she is my girlfriend.

With comments like that, the only sex you're getting is in front of the computer with your knickers down to your knees.


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[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

No, I don't.

Women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of relationships. If a woman decides that she wants to have sex with me, that doesn't mean that she is my girlfriend.

It is pretty simple.

Dude.....women are the gatekeepers of everything. I suggest you start this thread back at post 1.

Currently the women reading this thread are giving the "Internet high five"....let me fix that.

If you get a woman to do anything for/with you, trickery is required.

Just got in the office and kinda skimmed some of the posts on here last night. I will have to go back, re-read and comment accordingly.

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

women are the gatekeepers of everything.

Fact.

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Dude.....women are the gatekeepers of everything. I suggest you start this thread back at post 1.

Currently the women reading this thread are giving the "Internet high five"....let me fix that.

If you get a woman to do anything for/with you, trickery is required.

Just got in the office and kinda skimmed some of the posts on here last night. I have go back, re-read and comment accordingly.

I have to disagree. It always made me happy to make my man happy. Whether that be doing something for him or with him. We're not all self centered and selfish.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

I have to disagree. It always made me happy to make my man happy. Whether that be doing something for him or with him. We're not all self centered and selfish.

I knew I'd get a disagreement, however; hear me out. All male species, use some form of trickery to attract mates. I'm not necessarily saying "trick" women into what you want, but men use their tone, change how they act, act like they have things they don't and all sorts of other avenues to get a woman to notice them. This is what I referred to as trickery. Women are guilty of this as well, but men have to really go all out...or at least that's how I've always felt anyway. (i.e. to stand out beyond others - If you're a man in room full of women, if you don't stand out....you don't stand out.)

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I knew I'd get a disagreement, however; hear me out. All male species, use some form of trickery to attract mates. I'm not necessarily saying "trick" women into what you want, but men use their tone, change how they act, act like they have things they don't and all sorts of other avenues to get a woman to notice them. This is what I referred to as trickery. Women are guilty of this as well, but men have to really go all out...or at least that's how I've always felt anyway. (i.e. to stand out beyond others - If you're a man in room full of women, if you don't stand out....you don't stand out.)

I think I misunderstood your comment and took it out of context.

[JP10]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

I have to disagree. It always made me happy to make my man happy. Whether that be doing something for him or with him. We're not all self centered and selfish.

I like to think my wife is like this - I'm lucky enough that she loves doing things for me, I think part of that is because I work so hard for her. It is a give and take

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I knew I'd get a disagreement, however; hear me out. All male species, use some form of trickery to attract mates. I'm not necessarily saying "trick" women into what you want, but men use their tone, change how they act, act like they have things they don't and all sorts of other avenues to get a woman to notice them. This is what I referred to as trickery. Women are guilty of this as well, but men have to really go all out...or at least that's how I've always felt anyway. (i.e. to stand out beyond others - If you're a man in room full of women, if you don't stand out....you don't stand out.)

Idk if I completely agree with this one - I'll say a partial agreement. Majority of the time I am as blunt as can be, and if that doesn't please someone then it is what it is. Now some things I agree - for instance when I'm sick, even just a smidge sick, I'll try to get the wife to do everything and kick my feet up because men turn into babies when they're sick and thats a fact. Other things that I want, and I'm sure you know what I mean, require some sort of bartery on my end not so much trickery though.

[ragingpanda]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

But if you decide you want a relationship with her, that doesn't necessarily make it so.

Oh really? So your wife got on one knee and proposed to you?

[ragingpanda]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

With comments like that, the only sex you're getting is in front of the computer with your knickers down to your knees.

How so? It's not hard to get paired up on a dating app, meet up for drinks, being honest with each other and having some fun with each other. The only hard part is trying to get rid of the woman when she expects more than a casual hook up which is what we agreed upon when we first met.

There are lots of women out there that think that they can change my mind about wanting to get into a relationship with them by sleeping with me. Like I said, I am always honest about my intentions from the start, but the majority of women that I meet on the apps are not.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Muslim?

I feel like dinonz and I might be intelligent enough to get the answer in this grand game of 21 questions we've just decided to play.

Originally Posted by dinonz

But I'm not using my intelligence. I'm stirring the pot

.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

So if I call out "hey, asshole!” in here, who responds?

I will.

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

I love dating apps, it has made hooking up sooooo much easier. There is no need to commit to a woman when you can get more ass than a toilet seat lol.

Are these ladies aware that they are nothing more than a hook up? If so, play on. If not, shame on you.

Originally Posted by Sara

Ha! I'm sure you do your due diligence to ensure all these women know you're not looking for anything serious and you certainly wouldn't waste anyone's time. No one here is going to say anything to you. Hell, you'll probably get high fives.

I love it, what a fucking double standard. Though I'm not on there just to get ass, I sure get called out on here more so than someone just seeking ass. I'm the female, so it's not okay for me to do anything other than look for marriage on those apps and only date one at a time.

Wrong. I said something. Now Sara, no one else here is screaming about a double standard aside from you. You get called out for looking for "the one" but doing everything but, then saying it's just having fun. You've already been accused of your crimes in the dating community. At this point, this post is just as bad fussing at the police officer that pulled you over for speeding for not pulling over everyone else who was speeding as well.

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

I am always upfront with the women I meet and tell them that I am just looking for a good time and have no intentions of ever getting married or having kids.

Now he gets the high five. It seemed that when I was perusing the dating apps, the more honest you were, the more ok with it the ladies were. I won't go into details but I've never understood the players mentality. Lying and being shady for what? There's no reason to be. Honesty gets you the same end result without all the BS.

Originally Posted by Sara

Who the heck wants a little sausage? Can it at least be average?


I'm so happy I'm not guy and have to worry about size. If I want to go bigger or smaller, I just go to a plastic surgeon

Men and women alike all have our insecurities. Those that don't worry about size worry about things like being bald.

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

LOL, that makes no sense. Women do not determine whether or not a relationship will be established, that is up to the man.

I'm taking back my damn internet high five.

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

I think I misunderstood your comment and took it out of context.

Not necessarily. I could have phrased it differently and now that I think about it, it does go both ways. Women can be guilty of this as well.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

Oh really? So your wife got on one knee and proposed to you?

If you propose to someone, you are ultimately asking for their agreement, no? They can just as easily say no and are the one making the final decision.

[M5Rick]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I will.



Are these ladies aware that they are nothing more than a hook up? If so, play on. If not, shame on you.



Wrong. I said something. Now Sara, no one else here is screaming about a double standard aside from you. You get called out for looking for "the one" but doing everything but, then saying it's just having fun. You've already been accused of your crimes in the dating community. At this point, this post is just as bad fussing at the police officer that pulled you over for speeding for not pulling over everyone else who was speeding as well.



Now he gets the high five. It seemed that when I was perusing the dating apps, the more honest you were, the more ok with it the ladies were. I won't go into details but I've never understood the players mentality. Lying and being shady for what? There's no reason to be. Honesty gets you the same end result without all the BS.



Men and women alike all have our insecurities. Those that don't worry about size worry about things like being bald.



I'm taking back my damn internet high five.



Not necessarily. I could have phrased it differently and now that I think about it, it does go both ways. Women can be guilty of this as well.

At the end of the day your sum ups come up good with me King Rudi.