What's a major deal breaker/turn off in the opposite sex?

zx10guy · 02-20-2021, 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Murf993

My second ex wife got implants, she was very fit and after children she was left somewhat smaller and felt "weak" (her words). We spend a lot of money at the time with a very good surgeon. The results were nothing short of stunning. Very natural looking and I think she was very happy both with her physical appearance and emotionally. I'm always surprised when guys get all twisted up about implants but are ok with hair colour, make up, high heels etc. You be you.

My ex wanted to get liposuction for her abs but ended up doing the cool sculpting. Around that time, she binged out on working out and dieting where friends would comment on how skinny she got (in a not so flattering way). Didn't realize that was the start of the end of the marriage. I observed the same behavior from my neighbor. She got skinny and had a boob job. Then they developed marital problems. Rumor was she had an affair. They managed to work things out though and are still together.

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Says the guy who wants to mod his car...

I sincerely hope no one who thinks it’s a dealbreaker dates or marries a woman who ends up getting breast cancer. Pretty sure you’ve never seen the t-shirt that reads “Yes they’re fake, the real ones tried to kill me.” Women lose their breasts for a number of reasons, and if having implants makes them feel like a woman again, I hope you don’t ever leave someone because that’s your deal breaker.

I got close to one of my neighbors that I didn't know she was dealing with breast cancer.....for 20 years. Stage 4. She was one of those that I felt was taken away from all of us too soon. She had the kindest heart and helped everyone she was in contact with. She kept me sane through my cancer journey and the collapse of my marriage. I was devastated when I got the news she had passed. I was glad I was able to visit with her one last time a couple of weeks before. Her husband stuck by her side the entire time. I aspire to have a relationship they had. At her funeral there were well over a hundred people in attendance.

MKSixer · 02-20-2021, 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

I’m curious as to what you don’t like about them? Even the “gummy bear” implants that feel super real? If it feels real and looks fucking phenomenal, you still wouldn’t like it just because it’s not god given? Just curious

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Originally Posted by Littlebear

Gd, I hope they do it better than when I was playing around....

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Originally Posted by Murf993

My second ex wife got implants, she was very fit and after children she was left somewhat smaller and felt "weak" (her words). We spend a lot of money at the time with a very good surgeon. The results were nothing short of stunning. Very natural looking and I think she was very happy both with her physical appearance and emotionally. I'm always surprised when guys get all twisted up about implants but are ok with hair colour, make up, high heels etc. You be you.

I have no idea why people have problems with implants. They are one of greatest inventions in the history of the world. I put them up there with The Wheel and the modern Air Superiority Fighter.

I have spoken.

MKSixer · 02-20-2021, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Littlebear

No, they don't look, or feel real!!!
There are picture tests on the innernet, 'are these real or silicone'. Somehow, I do quite well.

Murf

PS: I hate high heels. What is sexy about a woman who can do little but hobble around? I prefer a woman in running shoes.

Murf

I don't know who you are any longer. There are few things in this world more sexy about a woman than one walking in heels. They push the butt out and when they know how to do it properly, it's a glide...

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Originally Posted by Sara504

You haven't felt gummy bear implants. Trust me on this one. It's a newer technology.

Also, I walk just fine in heels. I wear them every day, all day. I'm not Bambi.

Thank You!!!

stein_325i · 02-20-2021, 08:10 AM

Lazy, nagging, are the big two, had to deal with that in the first marriage. A big turn off is someone overly religious or anything that is obviously fake (if it looks real its fine with me), or overly sensative/pc, and no smokers. I like a woman who can be supportive and loving but also independent if she needs to be and also hard working.

Littlebear · 02-20-2021, 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

I don't know who you are any longer. There are few things in this world more sexy about a woman than one walking in heels. They push the butt out and when they know how to do it properly, it's a glide...
Thank You!!!

I don't even like much makeup.

Remember the song, "Plastic Fantastic Lover"?

I just prefer the 'natural' look. To me the sexiest women are good to very good runners, trim breasts & running shoes included.

Murf

MKSixer · 02-20-2021, 08:21 AM

Deal Breakers

Stupidity
Shallow
Unfit
Bad Attitude
Lushes
Smokers
Judgemental
Ignorance
Holier-Than-Thou Attitude
Femi-Nazi
Hygiene Issues
Estranged from all family. BIG red flag.
Ain't saying she's a Gold Digger...
Social Climber
Name Dropper
Braggart
Never traveled internationally
Treats waitstaff horribly
Insincere
Thoughtless
Selfish

That's what pops into my head, immediately. I'll have more later...

MKSixer · 02-20-2021, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Littlebear

I don't even like much makeup.

Remember the song, "Plastic Fantastic Lover"?

I just prefer the 'natural' look. To me the sexiest women are good to very good runners, trim breasts & running shoes included.

Murf

I get that. I like the runner look but with C or D. I love curves but fit. As far as height goes, 5'-5" to 5'-9", work well for me but I've dated as tall as 6-1 (a runway model).

Littlebear · 02-20-2021, 08:32 AM

Some of you have long lists!
The obligatory tats, cigi-butts & too much alcohol have always been turn-offs.
But generally, I've lived by, "Baby, let's never say never...."

Any height btwn 5 & 6 ft I can handle?

Murf

Littlebear · 02-20-2021, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

I get that.... I've dated as tall as 6-1 (a runway model).

After dating you, did she become a run-away model?

(I crack myself up sometimes)

zx10guy · 02-20-2021, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

I don't know who you are any longer. There are few things in this world more sexy about a woman than one walking in heels. They push the butt out and when they know how to do it properly, it's a glide...

I'd add that heels also accentuates her calves. The whole shape and view from the rear is heavenly.

c1pher · 02-20-2021, 08:55 AM

For me it’s the fakeness as #1. Clown eyebrows, tons of makeup, fake boobs etc. I can understand if you want to fix things after childbirth and have no issue with that...tummy tuck, breast enhancement etc. But women are beautiful as they are. They don’t need to look like odd cartoon characters. My wife doesn’t even wear makeup.

zx10guy · 02-20-2021, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

I get that. I like the runner look but with C or D. I love curves but fit. As far as height goes, 5'-5" to 5'-9", work well for me but I've dated as tall as 6-1 (a runway model).

You and I have the same tastes.

The shortest girl I've dated was 4'9". Until recently, the tallest I've dated was 5'6-7". Since doing online dating, I've been able to get with taller women. Three I've been on dates with are 5'9-10". The tallest I've met up with was 6'5". That was strange as I am 6'5". It was a total mental trip talking with her eye to eye. If she wore heels, she would be taller than me. She was a D1 basketball player that went pro.

MKSixer · 02-20-2021, 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Littlebear

After dating you, did she become a run-away model?

(I crack myself up sometimes)

She needed medication. Lots. Prior to dating me. Bat. Sh1t Crazy.

MKSixer · 02-20-2021, 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by zx10guy

You and I have the same tastes.

The shortest girl I've dated was 4'9". Until recently, the tallest I've dated was 5'6-7". Since doing online dating, I've been able to get with taller women. Three I've been on dates with are 5'9-10". The tallest I've met up with was 6'5". That was strange as I am 6'5". It was a total mental trip talking with her eye to eye. If she wore heels, she would be taller than me. She was a D1 basketball player that went pro.

Wow! 6'-5"...maks sense that she was D1 and pro.

I like volleyball players, as well.

garyfried · 02-20-2021, 10:06 AM

Smokers for sure. Continual cell phone use is a big turn off.

floridaorange · 02-20-2021, 10:07 AM

The slightest whiff of unnecessary drama and/or gossip.

CTinline-six · 02-20-2021, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Says the guy who wants to mod his car...

I sincerely hope no one who thinks it’s a dealbreaker dates or marries a woman who ends up getting breast cancer. Pretty sure you’ve never seen the t-shirt that reads “Yes they’re fake, the real ones tried to kill me.” Women lose their breasts for a number of reasons, and if having implants makes them feel like a woman again, I hope you don’t ever leave someone because that’s your deal breaker.

Let me first say I like both real and fake, and don't see an issue with it.

With that said, I think comparing body mods with car mods is very different, and so is someone wanting implants because it improves their self esteem vs. someone who has lost their breasts due to suffering through cancer.

zx10guy · 02-20-2021, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

Wow! 6'-5"...maks sense that she was D1 and pro.

I like volleyball players, as well.

Me too. Love VB players. It's funny I never dated anyone in the VB community. I used to play competitive VB in my younger years. I did have an ex that did play VB and was pretty good but I met her at work.

dinonz · 02-20-2021, 10:17 AM

Covered in cheap manky tattoos, especially tittoos.
God botherer.
Puffed up lips.
Junk in the trunk.

Lady Jane · 02-20-2021, 10:28 AM

Grown-up men who dress like a 14 year old. Especially those with the sideway ball cap.

Littlebear · 02-20-2021, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

Wow! 6'-5"...maks sense that she was D1 and pro.

I like volleyball players, as well.

Especially those two US Olympic Beach Volleyball women! Misty May & Kerri Walsh ?

Littlebear · 02-20-2021, 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

Grown-up men who dress like a 14 year old. Especially those with the sideway ball cap.

A guy without a tailored suit?

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