Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[Rmtt]

This mask work?

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by Rmtt

This mask work?

Yes.... yes indeed

[adc100]

I started dating when I was a senior in H.S. (1963) I started taking a girl who was a majorette in 10th grade to Band. One thing led to another. We dated for three years. She went to PSU and I got dumped.

Never forgot her. About 8 years ago I wrote her a long letter telling her about me. She wrote me and it was neat to sort of "close the loop" We communicate every year or so. Over the years she got fat and not very attractive. Just saw a pic of her on FB.

Long and short of it, even though it didn't end well. I wouldn't trade it for the world. Oh yea, my wife is very attractive at the age of 74. But if something happened to both our spouses I'd look her up..lol.

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by adc100

I started dating when I was a senior in H.S. (1963) I started taking a girl who was a majorette in 10th grade to Band. One thing led to another. We dated for three years. She went to PSU and I got dumped.

Never forgot her. About 8 years ago I wrote her a long letter telling her about me. She wrote me and it was neat to sort of "close the loop" We communicate every year or so. Over the years she got fat and not very attractive. Just saw a pic of her on FB.

Long and short of it, even though it didn't end well. I wouldn't trade it for the world. Oh yea, my wife is very attractive at the age of 74. But if something happened to both our spouses I'd look her up..lol.

What the fuck did I just read.....

Just have an affair lol.

[adc100]

Originally Posted by premier3is

What the fuck did I just read.....

Just have an affair lol.

lol..nah..I'm happy where I'm at..just saying..

[Nuckle]

My favorite dating story of my life:
So 23 years ago a buddy of mine's girlfriend asked me if I would meet a friend of hers. I said sure and we did a double date thing and I fell head over hills for a girl named Christy almost immediately. We dated for about a month and things were going great. I was so into this girl that I actually pushed back from having sex with her as I didn't want that to complicate things or accelerate things too quickly to just burn out. All of a sudden she stopped returning my calls. I was dumbfounded, I could not figure out what was going on. At the time I had a cell phone but she didn't and the only way for me to try to reach her was at home. I finally talked her mom into making her talk to me and let me know why we were done. She called and was squalling. She was pregnant and obviously it was not mine. She had had sex with her boyfriend the day before they broke up and we met that following weekend. I was kind, I loved her but I told her that I wasn't ready for that level of responsibility and that she should probably try to work thing out with him and they raise this child together.

I moved on and met my ex wife. We were married 17 years, some were good but many were not. Thing finally come to a head and we divorced. Under severe protest from friends and family I settled with the ex in 3 days. I gave up all equities and agreed to a ridiculous alimony amount. I just wanted to get it done so I could go find real love and happiness. I have a job with unlimited income potential and knew that I could replace financial gains but the need to find a healthy relationship was more important. Alabama has a 30 wait on divorces once they are settled.

So my divorce would be final on a Monday. The weekend prior my lifelong best friend and his wife invited me to their lake house. That Saturday night his wife which I have also known most of my life told me she had two women that wanted to go out with me when I was ready. She then asked me if there was anyone from my past that I would want to meet up with again. I told her the only girl that I have thought about and thought about often was Christy ______. I told her I that I had no idea where she was or if she was married or even alive. Being a big face booker at the time I had never seen her pop up as a friend suggestion, or anything. Her eyes lit up and she said she still lives in the area. That she was friends with her on Facebook and that she thinks she is either divorced or going through a divorce. She gave me her married name and I sent her a friend request. She accepted and we had like 300 friends in common. How the hell did I never get her as a suggestion? Anyway......

After a few attempt at messaging her and getting just simple answers I realized that everything I had on Facebook said I was married I found a way to make it know I wasn't. Things took off from there, we met for lunch. She was everything I remembered. Sparks flew immediately and we got married 8-31-18 after dating for 15 months. She is the most beautiful, kindest, selfless and genuine person I have ever known. We have yet to have an argument. I have a beautiful step daughter (15) and a awesome step son (21), yep he is the one.

Long winded and probably boring for most but it is the most important story of my earthly life.

For those in love, keep loving. For those looking for love, know it is an amazing thing that takes work and patience.

Good night everyone.

[adc100]

That is so cool!!!!

[FuriouslyFast]

Am I the only one that can't get traction on Hinge?

[BMW F22]

Best. Story. Ever!! Thank you for sharing and congratulations!

Originally Posted by Nuckle

My favorite dating story of my life:
So 23 years ago a buddy of mine's girlfriend asked me if I would meet a friend of hers. I said sure and we did a double date thing and I fell head over hills for a girl named Christy almost immediately. We dated for about a month and things were going great. I was so into this girl that I actually pushed back from having sex with her as I didn't want that to complicate things or accelerate things too quickly to just burn out. All of a sudden she stopped returning my calls. I was dumbfounded, I could not figure out what was going on. At the time I had a cell phone but she didn't and the only way for me to try to reach her was at home. I finally talked her mom into making her talk to me and let me know why we were done. She called and was squalling. She was pregnant and obviously it was not mine. She had had sex with her boyfriend the day before they broke up and we met that following weekend. I was kind, I loved her but I told her that I wasn't ready for that level of responsibility and that she should probably try to work thing out with him and they raise this child together.

I moved on and met my ex wife. We were married 17 years, some were good but many were not. Thing finally come to a head and we divorced. Under severe protest from friends and family I settled with the ex in 3 days. I gave up all equities and agreed to a ridiculous alimony amount. I just wanted to get it done so I could go find real love and happiness. I have a job with unlimited income potential and knew that I could replace financial gains but the need to find a healthy relationship was more important. Alabama has a 30 wait on divorces once they are settled.

So my divorce would be final on a Monday. The weekend prior my lifelong best friend and his wife invited me to their lake house. That Saturday night his wife which I have also known most of my life told me she had two women that wanted to go out with me when I was ready. She then asked me if there was anyone from my past that I would want to meet up with again. I told her the only girl that I have thought about and thought about often was Christy ______. I told her I that I had no idea where she was or if she was married or even alive. Being a big face booker at the time I had never seen her pop up as a friend suggestion, or anything. Her eyes lit up and she said she still lives in the area. That she was friends with her on Facebook and that she thinks she is either divorced or going through a divorce. She gave me her married name and I sent her a friend request. She accepted and we had like 300 friends in common. How the hell did I never get her as a suggestion? Anyway......

After a few attempt at messaging her and getting just simple answers I realized that everything I had on Facebook said I was married I found a way to make it know I wasn't. Things took off from there, we met for lunch. She was everything I remembered. Sparks flew immediately and we got married 8-31-18 after dating for 15 months. She is the most beautiful, kindest, selfless and genuine person I have ever known. We have yet to have an argument. I have a beautiful step daughter (15) and a awesome step son (21), yep he is the one.

Long winded and probably boring for most but it is the most important story of my earthly life.

For those in love, keep loving. For those looking for love, know it is an amazing thing that takes work and patience.

Good night everyone.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Nuckle

My favorite dating story of my life:
So 23 years ago a buddy of mine's girlfriend asked me if I would meet a friend of hers. I said sure and we did a double date thing and I fell head over hills for a girl named Christy almost immediately. We dated for about a month and things were going great. I was so into this girl that I actually pushed back from having sex with her as I didn't want that to complicate things or accelerate things too quickly to just burn out. All of a sudden she stopped returning my calls. I was dumbfounded, I could not figure out what was going on. At the time I had a cell phone but she didn't and the only way for me to try to reach her was at home. I finally talked her mom into making her talk to me and let me know why we were done. She called and was squalling. She was pregnant and obviously it was not mine. She had had sex with her boyfriend the day before they broke up and we met that following weekend. I was kind, I loved her but I told her that I wasn't ready for that level of responsibility and that she should probably try to work thing out with him and they raise this child together.

I moved on and met my ex wife. We were married 17 years, some were good but many were not. Thing finally come to a head and we divorced. Under severe protest from friends and family I settled with the ex in 3 days. I gave up all equities and agreed to a ridiculous alimony amount. I just wanted to get it done so I could go find real love and happiness. I have a job with unlimited income potential and knew that I could replace financial gains but the need to find a healthy relationship was more important. Alabama has a 30 wait on divorces once they are settled.

So my divorce would be final on a Monday. The weekend prior my lifelong best friend and his wife invited me to their lake house. That Saturday night his wife which I have also known most of my life told me she had two women that wanted to go out with me when I was ready. She then asked me if there was anyone from my past that I would want to meet up with again. I told her the only girl that I have thought about and thought about often was Christy ______. I told her I that I had no idea where she was or if she was married or even alive. Being a big face booker at the time I had never seen her pop up as a friend suggestion, or anything. Her eyes lit up and she said she still lives in the area. That she was friends with her on Facebook and that she thinks she is either divorced or going through a divorce. She gave me her married name and I sent her a friend request. She accepted and we had like 300 friends in common. How the hell did I never get her as a suggestion? Anyway......

After a few attempt at messaging her and getting just simple answers I realized that everything I had on Facebook said I was married I found a way to make it know I wasn't. Things took off from there, we met for lunch. She was everything I remembered. Sparks flew immediately and we got married 8-31-18 after dating for 15 months. She is the most beautiful, kindest, selfless and genuine person I have ever known. We have yet to have an argument. I have a beautiful step daughter (15) and a awesome step son (21), yep he is the one.

Long winded and probably boring for most but it is the most important story of my earthly life.

For those in love, keep loving. For those looking for love, know it is an amazing thing that takes work and patience.

Good night everyone.

Love a good ending! Happy for you man

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

Am I the only one that can't get traction on Hinge?

For me Hinge has been better than Tinder, to be honest those two apps are what made me believe in the law of attraction - for thotties yeah Tinder is better but for higher quality women Hinge is better (at least down here)

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

Love a good ending! Happy for you man


For me Hinge has been better than Tinder, to be honest those two apps are what made me believe in the law of attraction - for thotties yeah Tinder is better but for higher quality women Hinge is better (at least down here)

Tinder is useless for me + so many fake profiles anyway. I'm ugly.

Hinge needs to let you "like" more profiles without paying. I'm not paying!

I might have to get back on Match. I can't get a date lately. Just more time wasters or no replies.

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by Nuckle

My favorite dating story of my life:
So 23 years ago a buddy of mine's girlfriend asked me if I would meet a friend of hers. I said sure and we did a double date thing and I fell head over hills for a girl named Christy almost immediately. We dated for about a month and things were going great. I was so into this girl that I actually pushed back from having sex with her as I didn't want that to complicate things or accelerate things too quickly to just burn out. All of a sudden she stopped returning my calls. I was dumbfounded, I could not figure out what was going on. At the time I had a cell phone but she didn't and the only way for me to try to reach her was at home. I finally talked her mom into making her talk to me and let me know why we were done. She called and was squalling. She was pregnant and obviously it was not mine. She had had sex with her boyfriend the day before they broke up and we met that following weekend. I was kind, I loved her but I told her that I wasn't ready for that level of responsibility and that she should probably try to work thing out with him and they raise this child together.

I moved on and met my ex wife. We were married 17 years, some were good but many were not. Thing finally come to a head and we divorced. Under severe protest from friends and family I settled with the ex in 3 days. I gave up all equities and agreed to a ridiculous alimony amount. I just wanted to get it done so I could go find real love and happiness. I have a job with unlimited income potential and knew that I could replace financial gains but the need to find a healthy relationship was more important. Alabama has a 30 wait on divorces once they are settled.

So my divorce would be final on a Monday. The weekend prior my lifelong best friend and his wife invited me to their lake house. That Saturday night his wife which I have also known most of my life told me she had two women that wanted to go out with me when I was ready. She then asked me if there was anyone from my past that I would want to meet up with again. I told her the only girl that I have thought about and thought about often was Christy ______. I told her I that I had no idea where she was or if she was married or even alive. Being a big face booker at the time I had never seen her pop up as a friend suggestion, or anything. Her eyes lit up and she said she still lives in the area. That she was friends with her on Facebook and that she thinks she is either divorced or going through a divorce. She gave me her married name and I sent her a friend request. She accepted and we had like 300 friends in common. How the hell did I never get her as a suggestion? Anyway......

After a few attempt at messaging her and getting just simple answers I realized that everything I had on Facebook said I was married I found a way to make it know I wasn't. Things took off from there, we met for lunch. She was everything I remembered. Sparks flew immediately and we got married 8-31-18 after dating for 15 months. She is the most beautiful, kindest, selfless and genuine person I have ever known. We have yet to have an argument. I have a beautiful step daughter (15) and a awesome step son (21), yep he is the one.

Long winded and probably boring for most but it is the most important story of my earthly life.

For those in love, keep loving. For those looking for love, know it is an amazing thing that takes work and patience.

Good night everyone.

Great story! Thank you for sharing. I know there is one in my life I will never forget as well and we wanted to get married, but there was one thing that got in the way of us being able to do so. I think of her often and hope she is doing well. Maybe one day I will share here.

Can't force love, it comes if it is right and it is a wonderful feeling. Wish you and your wife the best.

[adc100]

Originally Posted by premier3is

. I think of her often and hope she is doing well.

Yea..and that feeling never goes away. Just like when you get your heart broken..that never changes even when you are later extraordinarily happy with your present partner.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Nuckle

My favorite dating story of my life:
So 23 years ago a buddy of mine's girlfriend asked me if I would meet a friend of hers. I said sure and we did a double date thing and I fell head over hills for a girl named Christy almost immediately. We dated for about a month and things were going great. I was so into this girl that I actually pushed back from having sex with her as I didn't want that to complicate things or accelerate things too quickly to just burn out. All of a sudden she stopped returning my calls. I was dumbfounded, I could not figure out what was going on. At the time I had a cell phone but she didn't and the only way for me to try to reach her was at home. I finally talked her mom into making her talk to me and let me know why we were done. She called and was squalling. She was pregnant and obviously it was not mine. She had had sex with her boyfriend the day before they broke up and we met that following weekend. I was kind, I loved her but I told her that I wasn't ready for that level of responsibility and that she should probably try to work thing out with him and they raise this child together.

I moved on and met my ex wife. We were married 17 years, some were good but many were not. Thing finally come to a head and we divorced. Under severe protest from friends and family I settled with the ex in 3 days. I gave up all equities and agreed to a ridiculous alimony amount. I just wanted to get it done so I could go find real love and happiness. I have a job with unlimited income potential and knew that I could replace financial gains but the need to find a healthy relationship was more important. Alabama has a 30 wait on divorces once they are settled.

So my divorce would be final on a Monday. The weekend prior my lifelong best friend and his wife invited me to their lake house. That Saturday night his wife which I have also known most of my life told me she had two women that wanted to go out with me when I was ready. She then asked me if there was anyone from my past that I would want to meet up with again. I told her the only girl that I have thought about and thought about often was Christy ______. I told her I that I had no idea where she was or if she was married or even alive. Being a big face booker at the time I had never seen her pop up as a friend suggestion, or anything. Her eyes lit up and she said she still lives in the area. That she was friends with her on Facebook and that she thinks she is either divorced or going through a divorce. She gave me her married name and I sent her a friend request. She accepted and we had like 300 friends in common. How the hell did I never get her as a suggestion? Anyway......

After a few attempt at messaging her and getting just simple answers I realized that everything I had on Facebook said I was married I found a way to make it know I wasn't. Things took off from there, we met for lunch. She was everything I remembered. Sparks flew immediately and we got married 8-31-18 after dating for 15 months. She is the most beautiful, kindest, selfless and genuine person I have ever known. We have yet to have an argument. I have a beautiful step daughter (15) and a awesome step son (21), yep he is the one.

Long winded and probably boring for most but it is the most important story of my earthly life.

For those in love, keep loving. For those looking for love, know it is an amazing thing that takes work and patience.

Good night everyone.

BP Dating Thread Winner!!!

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by adc100

Yea..and that feeling never goes away. Just like when you get your heart broken..that never changes even when you are later extraordinarily happy with your present partner.

The ones that leave those sorts of impacts on you are the ones where there was a real bond, connection and something special.

Totally agree, those memories and that feeling will never fade even when you are 100% happy with your current partner.

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

The ones that leave those sorts of impacts on you are the ones where there was a real bond, connection and something special.

Totally agree, those memories and that feeling will never fade even when you are 100% happy with your current partner.

I wish I remember Jen's last name so I could look her up. Dated her back in 2004 or 2005 right after a bad LTR ending. I ended up ending it with Jen, but, to this day, she's the only one of my ex gf's that I didn't wish bad things on.

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

I wish I remember Jen's last name so I could look her up. Dated her back in 2004 or 2005 right after a bad LTR ending. I ended up ending it with Jen, but, to this day, she's the only one of my ex gf's that I didn't wish bad things on.

See... I knew there was some good in you lol

If she went to any of your schools, there is a chance you can usually find a list of names online. Maybe you can recall for seeing her full name.

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

See... I knew there was some good in you lol

If she went to any of your schools, there is a chance you can usually find a list of names online. Maybe you can recall for seeing her full name.

Nope. We were in our 20s. She was in Philly & I was from NJ.

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

Nope. We were in our 20s. She was in Philly & I was from NJ.

Any mutual friends?

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

Any mutual friends?

Zero.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

While the virus shut down our school effective Friday, I'm still meeting up with someone

If I catch corona trying to get laid please don't tell my mom

So...
Plan was to help her out with an interview for a class, said she'd rather meet over coffee. Then turned to grabbing beers at a local bar. Just texted me asking if we could just do it at my place

Maybe I won't catch corona after all but now I'm scared I'll catch something else

[aozer]

chick i was dating for a while and recently broke up with told me a few days ago she tested positive for chlamydia. we did have unprotected sex since she was on birth control but thats a mistake i will never make again.

either way, i came back negative so i guess she has already fucked enough dudes to catch an STD within the two weeks we broke up haha.