Time of year where guys go broke - Valentines...

MadDog · 01-29-2009, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by JOSG328I

My Wife and I have a no Valentines day deal. We both know its a commercial scam holiday to get you to spend money.

It may sound cheesy but who needs one day to say I love you, when I can say it every day.

Sounds good to me. Unfortunately, my wife is not of that same opinion.

///Mandy · 01-29-2009, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by branabolic

I've been seeing a girl lately but i'm really not into her. Problem is that she is so god damn nice that i can't be mean to her. I am obviously not going to buy her anything and maybe get wasted with my single buddies on v-day instead of hanging out with her. think she'll get it?

That is cruel.

DougLikesBMW · 01-29-2009, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ///Mandy

That is cruel.

MANDY!! Please give us some (cheap) ideas!

///Mandy · 01-29-2009, 02:17 PM

Under $100 for everyone or just for OP?

MadDog · 01-29-2009, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ///Mandy

That is cruel.

+1.

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Originally Posted by DougLikesBMW

MANDY!! Please give us some (cheap) ideas!

+1.

MadDog · 01-29-2009, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ///Mandy

Under $100 for everyone or just for OP?

Any price.

DougLikesBMW · 01-29-2009, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by ///Mandy

Under $100 for everyone or just for OP?

As cheap as possible (on budget).

///Mandy · 01-29-2009, 02:21 PM

It's hard because alot of girls have different tastes (some are way more materialized than others) and I completely agree that this is a commercialized "holiday".

On average, most girls like something of sentiment from their boyfriends/husbands like a bracelet/necklace.

What about a little get-away (get a nice hotel with a jacuzzi, champage and dinner after)?

Edit: just noticed DougLikesBMW's post. What about a box of chocolates and a dinner? Will that put you in the doghouse?

Explorer3253 · 01-29-2009, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by DougLikesBMW

+1...Valentines on the 14th, March 3rd her bday, March 7th = 2 years together....fuuuuuuck, this sucks.

Haha.. 3/7 is our 1 year, 2/14 vday and then 2/19 her bday! I get hurt just as bad as you do!

branabolic · 01-29-2009, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by ///Mandy

That is cruel.

really? last thing i wanna do is be mean to her she is wicked nice. should i just grow a set and tell her i really dont like her? i figured that is more mean. at least if i go with my plan she can just think i'm a huge asshole and decide to stop talking to ME and probably feel better about herself than if i said i didnt like HER. that make any sense?

MadDog · 01-29-2009, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Explorer3253

Haha.. 3/7 is our 1 year, 2/14 vday and then 2/19 her bday! I get hurt just as bad as you do!

I know you don't have it as bad as I do:

12/21 - Wedding Anniversary
12/25 - Christmas
12/28 - Wife's Birthday

You try coming up with presents for all three. One gift does not count for the next holiday. I found that out early.

MCS · 01-29-2009, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by DougLikesBMW

Lol, because that wouldn't go under the definition of 'being mean to her'?

to the op - Man up and Break up with her

///Mandy · 01-29-2009, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by branabolic

really? last thing i wanna do is be mean to her she is wicked nice. should i just grow a set and tell her i really dont like her? i figured that is more mean. at least if i go with my plan she can just think i'm a huge asshole and decide to stop talking to ME and probably feel better about herself than if i said i didnt like HER. that make any sense?

Yeah, you never want to hurt someone that way who has been nice to you. At least fess up, tell her you how you feel and be friends.

krote345 · 01-29-2009, 04:17 PM

Getting my gf a pair of Tiffany earrings.

Whatever you do, make sure that she is aware of the holiday that comes one month after Valentine's day:Steak and BJ Day. A great girlfriend will find it fun and will go with it.

Heinzftw · 01-29-2009, 04:29 PM

Box of chocolates to a few wonderful ladies in my life.

darkphantom · 01-29-2009, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by SpecC

yeah college kids = poor so we choose to spend our money on other things

yeah hence the budget constraint, I really wish it was like $10...but then she'll think I'm cheap....well maybe not....but I'll think I'm cheap!

DougLikesBMW · 01-29-2009, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by krote345

Whatever you do, make sure that she is aware of the holiday that comes one month after Valentine's day:Steak and BJ Day. A great girlfriend will find it fun and will go with it.

AMAZING!!!!

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1cleanm6 · 01-29-2009, 05:32 PM

valentine days lol..stupidest day ever...

its a business...

1cleanm6 · 01-29-2009, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Explorer3253

Haha.. 3/7 is our 1 year, 2/14 vday and then 2/19 her bday! I get hurt just as bad as you do!

bend over~!!!

DougLikesBMW · 01-29-2009, 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by ///Mandy

Edit: just noticed DougLikesBMW's post. What about a box of chocolates and a dinner? Will that put you in the doghouse?

Nah no chocolate for her. She doesn't need to gain any more weight,

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I guess I'll go look for a cheap teddybear and then do dinner.

Thanks Mandy.

JOSG328I · 01-29-2009, 06:11 PM

You know a good gift and most ladies are down for it... Set up a day for getting her a manicure or a pedicure or both. It should only set you back like 75.00 for both, depending on where you go it could be less.

///Mandy · 01-29-2009, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by DougLikesBMW

Nah no chocolate for her. She doesn't need to gain any more weight,

.

I guess I'll go look for a cheap teddybear and then do dinner.

Thanks Mandy.

LOL

lookin out for her best interests, huh?

Your idea sounds pretty nice too!

Np!

Hope I helped (a little) lol.

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///Mandy N54 <3 257 Rep 1,558 Posts Drives: E90 335xi Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Here. iTrader: (1)	It's hard because alot of girls have different tastes (some are way more materialized than others) and I completely agree that this is a commercialized "holiday". On average, most girls like something of sentiment from their boyfriends/husbands like a bracelet/necklace. What about a little get-away (get a nice hotel with a jacuzzi, champage and dinner after)? Edit: just noticed DougLikesBMW's post. What about a box of chocolates and a dinner? Will that put you in the doghouse? __________________ E90 335xi\|Nav pkg\|Sport pkg\|Dakota leather\|Brushed aluminum trim\|MTech kit
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JOSG328I First Lieutenant 19 Rep 377 Posts Drives: 2007 328I Sedan Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Huntington Beach iTrader: (0) Garage List 2007 328I [0.00]	You know a good gift and most ladies are down for it... Set up a day for getting her a manicure or a pedicure or both. It should only set you back like 75.00 for both, depending on where you go it could be less.
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