Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[Turkish Pickle]

sure, let's call each other by initials even though i've never met you yet

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

sadly not, but the one at her house turned out to be pretty durable

attaboy!

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

sure, let's call each other by initials even though i've never met you yet

Very smooth. Not too pushy and not eager.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by aozer

I have very thick, wavy hair. It must be the Turkish blood. It’s also already grey as shit and I’m only 30, but it’s better than going bald.

I miss my thick dark wavy hair. At one point it was so thick and luxurious that it was difficult to get a brush through it. Fast forward 15 years and it turned into a fine mist....or even brown smoke rather, that seemed to hover around my shiny cranium that peeked beneath the mist just enough to blind people when the light would reflect off of it just right.

I keep that shit shaved now. Apparently women really like bald guys. Who knew.

Funny side story. Was laying in bed with the girlfriend a few weeks ago and asked what she noticed first about men and what she was attracted to. Her first response: "I really find guys attractive that have longer hair" ouch....

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Funny side story. Was laying in bed with the girlfriend a few weeks ago and asked what she noticed first about men and what she was attracted to. Her first response: "I really find guys attractive that have longer hair" ouch....

Damn.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Damn.

RIGHT?!?!?

Don't get me wrong I didn't take offense to it too much as even though we all have different things we are attracted to, there are still different things that are attractive on different people.

I'm typically attracted to brunettes with blue or green eyes but the current girlfriend is blonde.

Still would have been nice to hear "nothing is sexier than a bald guy"

I came really close to making a comment about how brunettes are the hottest.......but I know better.

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

RIGHT?!?!?

Don't get me wrong I didn't take offense to it too much as even though we all have different things we are attracted to, there are still different things that are attractive on different people.

I'm typically attracted to brunettes with blue or green eyes but the current girlfriend is blonde.

Still would have been nice to hear "nothing is sexier than a bald guy"

I came really close to making a comment about how brunettes are the hottest.......but I know better.

So, what you really notice is if she can LIE to your face

[someguywithanm3]

Update:

I tried disappearing for a while. It only lasted a little while before she reached out and it's starting to feel like I'm that movie, "Wedding Crashers." She's not a stage 5 clinger, but she loves spending time with me. I'm not complaining though. It's pretty nice. I don't know what the future holds, but I'll keep you guys updated.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

So, what you really notice is if she can LIE to your face

Valid. I do appreciate her honesty. I'd rather her not tell me what I think I want to hear and be honest versus the inverse.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

Update:

I tried disappearing for a while. It only lasted a little while before she reached out and it's starting to feel like I'm that movie, "Wedding Crashers." She's not a stage 5 clinger, but she loves spending time with me. I'm not complaining though. It's pretty nice. I don't know what the future holds, but I'll keep you guys updated.

Honestly glad to hear this. Good on her for reaching out and good on you for recognizing potential and enjoying the mutual company.

[someguywithanm3]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Honestly glad to hear this. Good on her for reaching out and good on you for recognizing potential and enjoying the mutual company.

Thanks brother.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

RIGHT?!?!?

Don't get me wrong I didn't take offense to it too much as even though we all have different things we are attracted to, there are still different things that are attractive on different people.

I'm typically attracted to brunettes with blue or green eyes but the current girlfriend is blonde.

Still would have been nice to hear "nothing is sexier than a bald guy"

I came really close to making a comment about how brunettes are the hottest.......but I know better.

this is literal kryptonite for me
no woman who's a brunette with colored eyes can be ugly

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

this is literal kryptonite for me
no woman who's a brunette with colored eyes can be ugly

Agreed. They a truly a treasure to mankind.

[zentanker]

I wouldn't even know where to begin to answer this thread. Looking back, it seems like my appeal was all or nothing: I dated a few girls that after spending a little time with me wanted to throw rocks at me (figuratively, but one actually did, literally).

Women. Can't live without them. Can't bury them in the back yard.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by zentanker

I wouldn't even know where to begin to answer this thread. Looking back, it seems like my appeal was all or nothing: I dated a few girls that after spending a little time with me wanted to throw rocks at me (figuratively, but one actually did, literally).

Women. Can't live without them. Can't bury them in the back yard.

I would start with the story behind the one that threw rocks at you. I'm sure I'm not the only one who would be interested in hearing the story behind this.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

I would start with the story behind the one that threw rocks at you. I'm sure I'm not the only one who would be interested in hearing the story behind this.

indeed, please explain

[DETRoadster]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Agreed. They a truly a treasure to mankind.

Except for my ex wife who has brown hair, green eyes, and is the spawn of Satan himself.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by DETRoadster

Except for my ex wife who has brown hair, green eyes, and is the spawn of Satan himself.

can't have your cake and eat it too man

also i feel like this applies: "leaving your girl because she does crazy stuff is like moving because your house has gravity"

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by DETRoadster

Except for my ex wife who has brown hair, green eyes, and is the spawn of Satan himself.

I can relate to this as the second ex-wife may have been a distant sister to yours considering they share a father.

[zentanker]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

I would start with the story behind the one that threw rocks at you. I'm sure I'm not the only one who would be interested in hearing the story behind this.

When I lived in Austin, I liked to walk the Town Lake Trail which is now called "Lady Bird Lake".

I have a brick there with my name on it. When she asked me 'have you been here before?

it wasn't really a rock. Just a bit of gravel.


I took her home afterwards, and that was the end of the trail.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by zentanker

When I lived in Austin, I liked to walk the Town Lake Trail which is now called "Lady Bird Lake".

I have a brick there with my name on it. When she asked me 'have you been here before?

it wasn't really a rock. Just a bit of gravel.


I took her home afterwards, and that was the end of the trail.

$10 says your name is very common, like chris or alex

[zentanker]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

$10 says your name is very common, like chris or alex

jay

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by zentanker

When I lived in Austin, I liked to walk the Town Lake Trail which is now called "Lady Bird Lake".

I have a brick there with my name on it. When she asked me 'have you been here before?

it wasn't really a rock. Just a bit of gravel.


I took her home afterwards, and that was the end of the trail.

I won't lie the disappointment in this story is similar to waiting months for Glass to be released in the theaters. The anticipation mounted, then I watched the movie.....I have the same look on my face I had at the end of the movie.

Give it another go. Tell us about some crazy shit that you've experienced with the other sex. Surely there's a good story in there somewhere.