Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[upstatedoc]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

How's ponytails?

no ponytails, short brunette hair, green eyes. pay attention

[G35POPPEDMYCHERRY]

seinfeld has already answered most questions a long time ago...

[Turkish Pickle]

meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?

Keep it short and just say hey, you're a nice person so didn't wanna ghost you but I don't think it's gonna work out because... blah blah blah.

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?

Originally Posted by bimmette

Keep it short and just say hey, you're a nice person so didn't wanna ghost you but I don't think it's gonna work out because... blah blah blah.

Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Keep it short and just say hey, you're a nice person so didn't wanna ghost you but I don't think it's gonna work out because... blah blah blah.

that is the logical but also not-fun alternative it's what i had in mind

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?

uh, sure? why would i need to do this?

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?

Explain that you don't really see this going anywhere. Leave an uncomfortable silence for no longer than 60 seconds. Then break your own uncomfortable silence with "I must say I will miss the sex" gauge her reaction. Based on her reaction, body language and facial expression, you're next response needs to be: (if she isn't down) I sincerely wish you the best followed by a hug or (if she seems remotely interested) something to the affect of "how about it then", "wanna get out of here and go back to my place for a quick one" or "perhaps we should have one last go."

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Explain that you don't really see this going anywhere. Leave an uncomfortable silence for no longer than 60 seconds. Then break your own uncomfortable silence with "I must say I will miss the sex" gauge her reaction. Based on her reaction, body language and facial expression, you're next response needs to be: (if she isn't down) I sincerely wish you the best followed by a hug or (if she seems remotely interested) something to the affect of "how about it then", "wanna get out of here and go back to my place for a quick one" or "perhaps we should have one last go."

THIS is why i come here

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

uh, sure? why would i need to do this?

Oh, just because you were going to ghost her, and so it is penance for your attempted sin. Plus, it would be hilarious to see a guy in a Casper ghost costume telling you he didn't want to ghost you, so he's telling you in person.

At least it is funny in my mind.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

THIS is why i come here

I got you mang!

[upstatedoc]

just in case pat her down for weapons before you break the news

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Oh, just because you were going to ghost her, and so it is penance for your attempted sin. Plus, it would be hilarious to see a guy in a Casper ghost costume telling you he didn't want to ghost you, so he's telling you in person.

At least it is funny in my mind.

I laughed. Being John Malkovitch?

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

I laughed. Being John Malkovitch?

Had to look him up. Still not sure I understand. So probably not?

[kinuts]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?

Just been reading this thread for a few hours, loving it still new to this forum though I have been lurking in the background for several weeks...
My advice here would be call her and tell her you don't wanna keep it up as its heading no where. She probably wont be amused that she took 2-3 hours getting ready for the date then you go there and tell her you're no longer interested. Save her the time and effort of getting all dolled up for rejection

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

that is the logical but also not-fun alternative it's what i had in mind


uh, sure? why would i need to do this?

Do this. It would be SOLID GOLD. Get her to meet you at a coffee shop and walk by her, revealing yourself, without breaking stride, then walk out the door.

She Just Got Ghosted.

Do it. Do it. Do it.
Bonus points for adding sound effects!!

[Germanauto]

Went out with some girl last weekend but didn't really feel inspired. She's well educated and well spoken BUT [as shallow as this sounds] I feel I could do better in the looks department. She's cute but I expect more.

Gotta let her down gently now, don't wanna be an even bigger douche by ghosting. Will prob be meeting with someone else this weekend.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Germanauto

Went out with some girl last weekend but didn't really feel inspired. She's well educated and well spoken BUT [as shallow as this sounds] I feel I could do better in the looks department. She's cute but I expect more.

Gotta let her down gently now, don't wanna be an even bigger douche by ghosting. Will prob be meeting with someone else this weekend.

I feel like we need pictures now....just to be sure of providing sound advice.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

I feel like we need pictures now....just to be sure of providing sound advice.

Sometimes it worries me that we think so much alike...

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Sometimes it worries me that we think so much alike...

Indeed good sir.....indeed....

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Indeed good sir.....indeed....

Now, about those pictures...

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Now, about those pictures...

Yes, yes, yes.... Germanauto we'll wait.....

[Turkish Pickle]

so turn of events
went in (no ghost costume, sorry), saw the shop was crowded and said "lets get my car and go to the starbucks near your place" so we went to my place to get my keys, this happened: