what would YOU do??

Enjoiyourlife · 01-08-2009, 12:01 PM

Long story short.. The AVP of my department and I are both single and on the rebound.
We give each other "the eye". There's an obvious attraction. Not to mention the flirtatious emails that we exchange.

The barriers to entry are obvious:

1: We work together.
3: She is 32 while I am only 23.

I really want to make a move but it probably wouldn't be the best idea..

There is a definite gap in maturity level between us. But this is the type of girl I would love to date. She's an authority figure. Has her life together. Good head on her shoulders. INTELLIGENT. Beautiful... Much different than the bimbos from my past.

Anyhow.. We might have too large an age difference to date but banging her is a different story LOL.

What do you guys think? Happy hour isn't a bad idea right? Heh.

Keep in mind I may be leaving the company in April for the police academy...

Whostheboss · 01-08-2009, 12:04 PM

Do you want to Bang her? Then do so, Age is too much to consider relationship, she will be 40yrs while you are still 31yrs

Whostheboss · 01-08-2009, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by damadama

Uhhh, if you are infact leaving the company in April. I'd wait til march and then do the hit and run thing.

If you are NOT planning on leaving the company, you need to pleasure yourself before you go to work so you can keep your mind out of the gutter at work. Sounds like alot more trouble than its worth. (think finding new job, possibly having to relocate, being unemployed for a while b/c you can't find a new job...) and weigh it against the hotness of the ass.

my 2c

Yea, not worth risking your Job..... Wait till the new Job

Enjoiyourlife · 01-08-2009, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by damadama

Uhhh, if you are infact leaving the company in April. I'd wait til march and then do the hit and run thing.

If you are NOT planning on leaving the company, you need to pleasure yourself before you go to work so you can keep your mind out of the gutter at work. Sounds like alot more trouble than its worth. (think finding new job, possibly having to relocate, being unemployed for a while b/c you can't find a new job...) and weigh it against the hotness of the ass.

my 2c

This is the worst best advice man. hahaha..... But sadly, you guys are so right.

Its more difficult than it sounds though. Imagine a 5'5 half german half filipina woman with long hair in a pencil skirt, heels, tight blouse and an intoxicating scent. It doesnt matter. Even when I do get laid the night before... when this woman talks to me at work every day I just want to go home and pound the pud.

and the worst part is I'm pretty sure I could pull it but risk losing my job.. thus, my home and my 335

MadDog · 01-08-2009, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Enjoiyourlife

This is the worst best advice man. hahaha..... But sadly, you guys are so right.

Its more difficult than it sounds though. Imagine a 5'5 half german half filipina woman with long hair in a pencil skirt, heels, tight blouse and an intoxicating scent. It doesnt matter. Even when I do get laid the night before... when this woman talks to me at work every day I just want to go home and pound the pud.

and the worst part is I'm pretty sure I could pull it but risk losing my job.. thus, my home and my 335

Hit it, but be discreet !! Invite her over to your house, don't meet her at a nightclub.

wuufer001 · 01-08-2009, 12:43 PM

she probably also looking for a happy hour, you never know. an intelligent girl like her is probably also finding it hard to have a significant other, so you guys are possible and potential 'bedmates', if that's what they call it. and plus, she will understand the situation you're in so don't have to worry too much. i don't think she will be thinking about the relationship, just a couple of times of happy hours.

GL,

wish i had that kind of girl in my office

krote345 · 01-08-2009, 12:44 PM

(sorry...had to do it)

chinoxs203 · 01-08-2009, 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by krote345

(sorry...had to do it)

how did it take this many replies not to get this post!

but if its you job, home and car then bad idea. snap some pics with your blackberry under the desk at a meeting then you can

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Originally Posted by Enjoiyourlife

. go home and pound the pud.

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LOLrance · 01-08-2009, 01:20 PM

Just PIITB already.

Indenial · 01-08-2009, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by l4wr3nc3

Just PIITB already.

BMWE90 · 01-08-2009, 01:30 PM

I say "enjoi your life" and just do it. lol
If you don't you will always wonder about it. But yeah the age factor is kinda too much though. I mean she is almost old enough to be your aunt.

MadDog · 01-08-2009, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by wuufer001

wish i had that kind of girl in my office

Me too. The ones here are dogs.

Enjoiyourlife · 01-08-2009, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by BMWE90

I say "enjoi your life" and just do it. lol
If you don't you will always wonder about it. But yeah the age factor is kinda too much though. I mean she is almost old enough to be your aunt.

I have a thing for older women right now. Less games. They know what they want.

Quote:

Originally Posted by krote345

(sorry...had to do it)

I knew it was coming. How do you turn off the shutter sound on the blackberry? hah..

Quote:

Originally Posted by l4wr3nc3

Just PIITB already.

D1911 · 01-08-2009, 02:13 PM

She has more to loose then you do.

If you end up smashing (which I would in your situation) then rest assure your job won't be at a huge risk as long as you both keep it on the down low.

John@BMW · 01-08-2009, 02:14 PM

do not dip your pen in the company ink......

Inspired · 01-08-2009, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by krote345

(sorry...had to do it)

+1000000000000000

MCS · 01-08-2009, 02:18 PM

Ask her out on a date in March.

What's the worse that can happen?!?

My wife's cousin just turned 40 and married a guy who's 29...

Terrance28 · 01-08-2009, 02:19 PM

^^+1 I wouldn't worry about your job like the above poster said she has more to lose than you do. So go ahead and beat it up.

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Enjoiyourlife Sensei 52 Rep 1,054 Posts Drives: E92 335i Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: San Diego iTrader: (3)	what would YOU do?? Long story short.. The AVP of my department and I are both single and on the rebound. We give each other "the eye". There's an obvious attraction. Not to mention the flirtatious emails that we exchange. The barriers to entry are obvious: 1: We work together. 3: She is 32 while I am only 23. I really want to make a move but it probably wouldn't be the best idea.. There is a definite gap in maturity level between us. But this is the type of girl I would love to date. She's an authority figure. Has her life together. Good head on her shoulders. INTELLIGENT. Beautiful... Much different than the bimbos from my past. Anyhow.. We might have too large an age difference to date but banging her is a different story LOL. What do you guys think? Happy hour isn't a bad idea right? Heh. Keep in mind I may be leaving the company in April for the police academy... __________________ Last edited by Enjoiyourlife; 01-08-2009 at 03:43 PM..
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Whostheboss Captain 410 Rep 841 Posts Drives: a 9incher Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: No. Virginia U.S.A. iTrader: (0)	Do you want to Bang her? Then do so, Age is too much to consider relationship, she will be 40yrs while you are still 31yrs
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wuufer001 Colonel 379 Rep 2,348 Posts Drives: 2006 E90 M/T Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: DFW, TX//Taiwan//South Africa iTrader: (5) Garage List 2006 325i [9.34]	she probably also looking for a happy hour, you never know. an intelligent girl like her is probably also finding it hard to have a significant other, so you guys are possible and potential 'bedmates', if that's what they call it. and plus, she will understand the situation you're in so don't have to worry too much. i don't think she will be thinking about the relationship, just a couple of times of happy hours. GL, wish i had that kind of girl in my office __________________
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BMWE90 Major 88 Rep 1,153 Posts Drives: E90 335 Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Bay Area iTrader: (1)	I say "enjoi your life" and just do it. lol If you don't you will always wonder about it. But yeah the age factor is kinda too much though. I mean she is almost old enough to be your aunt.
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D1911 Private First Class 34 Rep 116 Posts Drives: 08 S2k Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Canada iTrader: (0)	She has more to loose then you do. If you end up smashing (which I would in your situation) then rest assure your job won't be at a huge risk as long as you both keep it on the down low.
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MCS e90 newbie 37 Rep 448 Posts Drives: 2012 M3 E93 Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Northern NJ iTrader: (2) Garage List 2006 330i [0.00]	Ask her out on a date in March. What's the worse that can happen?!? My wife's cousin just turned 40 and married a guy who's 29... __________________ E93 IL Blue M3 ZPP, ZCW
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Terrance28 Brigadier General 109 Rep 3,334 Posts Drives: Crimson Red E92 Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Killeen, TX iTrader: (17)	^^+1 I wouldn't worry about your job like the above poster said she has more to lose than you do. So go ahead and beat it up. __________________ Mods list got too long, lets just say more than enough.
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