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09-07-2018, 05:29 PM | #177 | |
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Shy is one thing, that sounds like some kind of social disorder. Did you make her laugh? That usually helps break the shyness a bit. Sucks because sometimes the shy ones are the most fun.
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09-07-2018, 06:05 PM | #179 | |
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chicks who come home either think im gay or already have a girlfriend because i'm a tidy guy with some sense of design, but some add 2 and 2 together and realize someone has to be funding this and that's when all hell breaks loose. on the daily you'll see me in gray shorts or joggers and a black, v-neck shirt. unless you look at my wrist and/or smell me there's no way to tell i just dont like showing off. when they do though, that's when they go on overdrive and i used to feel like a piece of shit for taking advantage of it but now i dont anymore, if they're willing to do all this stuff because my parents are successful human beings i'll gladly get laid on other news: met up with A, basically explained what happened and why i ended up ghosting her, shit's fine - she immediately said she's seeing someone else and i told her i'd be fine if she didn't want to see me ever again or just be friends (she was kinda cool because i was able to send her muslim memes and she'd understand+not be offended) and i guess we're chilling? on the way back from dropping her off though i got a CEL and went to autozone to see what's up - both O2 sensors are toast |
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09-07-2018, 09:55 PM | #181 |
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wish it was the BMW, that'd mean i was back home it's the lincoln
it's literally about to cost me at least a couple thousand very soon, tires are getting old, need brakes, scheduled maintenance is coming up etc AND ford can't into transmissions so its literally a ticking time bomb. so i'm trying to sell it and buy a E36 M3! |
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Recently I was hanging out at the BPD person I mentioned before, and she was going to meet her dad/aunt/uncle/cousin/sister who were in town for a game. She asked her dad if it was ok to bring a friend. After he said sure, she "prepped" me to meet her family. I had to be ok with what could come, since I am "brown" (I'm 50% Portuguese, 30% Italian). I was baffled as I had never been referred to as such, and did not find it appropriate. Long story short, I got along just fine with everyone (got hugs and interest all around, which lingered afterwards with people asking her about me saying I was a very interesting guy), but I could see that she was frightened throughout the dinner. She was the one with the issue. Not the others. I still carry that as something that hurt me and lowered my self esteem. I don't recommend doing that to other people, as "the talk" does more harm than good. I told her I could handle my own thank you very much. And so I did. That's just one of the facets of her that hurt me. Later I discovered it's part of the BPD. |
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09-08-2018, 04:10 AM | #184 | |
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Have you been yanked out of your car by the cops and told that, "we don't like that around here" with reference to my then-gf Beth who was blonde-blue? I'm guessing not. Have you been on the dance floor with a girl WHO ASKED YOU TO DANCE and some redneck comes up and asks if she is ok? Again, I'm guessing not. There is an aphorism that says something about judgement before you walk a mile in their shoes. I suggest you look it up. And do something about your anger issues.
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09-08-2018, 04:19 AM | #185 | |
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Not asking if racist...asking if they could handle it. My current gf's daughter had major issues borne of that fact. My gf told me and also informed me that she informed her daughter in no uncertain terms to get over it. This is a real thing. I don't think women are cunts and this is a pretty crappy thing to say. I'm looking for someone with intelligence, no insane baggage, sexy and hot, and who likes to have fun Period.
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09-08-2018, 06:30 AM | #186 | |
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1. I'm a CEO who built my own company. Insecure is not what I do in anything. Period. End of story. 2. I've never pre-empted anyone but I'm often the first POC that many of these people have dated in my age range. I've had to develop this because it's caused problems with people who live in bubbles and think this doesn't still occur. It does. If you aren't seeing it and don't understand, I suggest you expand your field of vision and see beyond what you're accustomed to seeing. 3. These aren't isolate incidents. I have a dear friend in a mixed marriage who moved from the area because of the harassment they received and later, their kids. Finally, your judgmental attitude is quite off-putting and the mere fact that you feel you can perform a pop-culture, internet analysis of me based on me relating my experiences, which you seem to largely discount, speaks more on your arrogance than my so-called, by you, insecurities. Enjoy your day-mk
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09-09-2018, 12:02 AM | #187 |
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spent the day in the suburbs with that "model" chick i described in a previous post, nice day altogether was eventful. then as i'm dropping her off she said she really wanted to sleep with me but was seeing someone else, followed by just in general really shitty human being content (aka how the sex has to be worth it so she can dump the guy, otherwise he'd never hear about us). now here's my dilemma: my brain says run away and never look back, as something like that happening to me would make me very furious. my heart says learn who the other guy is, sleep with her, and then let the guy know. my dick says just get in and don't care about anything else - if he's "okay" with knowing that his gf spent a whole day with some random dude in the suburbs (he's back in school apparently) i unfortunately can't respect that guy as a man; apparently he knows of me but not of what happened between her and i? which organ do i listen to? brain has a good point about personal ethics, dick has a good point about personal values, and heart covers both my dick while also somewhat satisfying my brain. then again: she isn't the only person who i can have sex, and getting into it knowing she has prior commitments is just wrong in my book so im kinda on the edge; the amount of red flags she managed to throw in one night is enough to knock down MKSixer and Not_Judy at once - definitely off the list for potential gf material for sure but she is vocally into rough sex apparently and i kinda want to get a taste idk am i making a huge deal of this for no reason? what would you guys do? |
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09-09-2018, 08:36 AM | #188 | |
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- Do not get into any kind of serious relationship with this girl. PERIOD. I refer to her behavior as "Monkey Syndrome" she isn't going to let go of one branch until she has another that she knows will support her. AGAIN, DO NOT GET CLOSE TO HER. You can only expect her to treat you the same way she is treating him. - If you have sex with her just to let him know, you may potentially end up with an enemy on your hands here. You don't want this in this day age. People tend to over escalate things. The mental stress, physical harm or possible financial liability isn't worth it. On the other hand, he may thank you for it.....I doubt it though. Either way, he's going to be upset in some form. - If you have sex with her and keep it on the down low......there are several issues with this. - If it's good, she's going to want it all the time and so will you. She will either leave him for you, which is shitty or she will continue to cheat on him with you, which is shitty as well. - If it's something that you end up not being into, you you never know until you try, you've now been "the. other guy" and run the risk of him finding out and run the risk of him possibly starting problems with you. - If you have sex with her while she is still with him put yourself in his shoes. Would you want to be with a girl who is considering having sex with another guy behind your back. The mental anguish that comes with this is not cool. The gentlemanly thing to do here is avoid the situation all the way around. There are women out there that will have freaky sex with you that aren't involved with another man. Considering that you've not had the kind of sex she is offering before, you're going to want it again. It will turn into a reoccurring situation and she'll either just want the sex and continue with the current guy or she'll leave him for you. Consider if she leaves him for you, at some point she will find someone else to have sex with, while with you, and then leave you for the new guy.....Monkey Syndrome. This is just how some women operate....typically narcissists. This only the beginning of her showing you who she is. If she is like this in the beginning, there will only be more underlying problems moving forward. I have been in this situation from being in your shoes, being the guy she is with now and also being her. There is no favorable outcome. I can't expect you to learn from my experiences/mistakes as ultimately you are going to do whatever you are going to do; I can only give you the potential outcomes and allow you to make the decision yourself. I hope this helps. |
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1- find someone without a relationship to have any form of sex with 2- we both kinda agreed nothing might come out of it but i'm not looking to have a potentially clingy person with these traits run after me 3- i actually feel bad for the guy to some extent, i kinda phrased that wrong in the post above but you get what i mean. the best outcome would be to avoid too mostly because of the stuff that happened in the car - i also like to think of myself as a bit higher than just being someone's male version of a mistress... also funny you mentioned the monkey syndrome, she said that herself lol oh yeah no worries on that part, she basically explained why she should never be a gf in her own words but i see your point. i geniuinely had not ever heard of the other dude until last night, she knows we're not exclusive. i just didn't know she was exclusive with another dude |
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Don't walk, RUN away from this woman.
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I got most of my muscles in the stomach area (can't call them abs) in various stages of cramps and I've broken a few ribs in this fun process. Accuracy matters, you made me laugh with yours just now and I probably am breaking a third one by laughing now.
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