Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[rebekahb]

@King Rudi

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[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

No one is stopping you.



I can only assume that this directed at me, along with the other posts on other threads done in a very passive aggressive manner. Forgive my lack of a response. I've been on vacation and don't use the app much to get on here.

I'm not sure what you are referring to as denial? I'm not in denial of anything. One can only assume that the denial business is nothing more than a play on words in relation to the "King" aspect of my moniker and denial was the only association you could make to get to use King Twat/The Nile. Good job, I guess.... (As a heads up, I'm not so bold as to call myself King, this name was given to me by one of the members here. I'm more of a pawn that ended up with the crown and doesn't want it.) This leaves me with the conclusion that this was yet another feeble attempt in baiting/taking a jab at me, due to my comment last week. I won't apologize for my comment as I feel it still stands.

As for telling anyone here how to run their life, I think I may have painted the wrong picture here. I do offer suggestions in the way of trying to make people think for themselves, on what best to do in their lives. I genuinely do not try to tell anyone what they need to do, as I don't want anyone telling me what to do with mine.

Jane, I don't want to lecture you on anything. Honestly, when I fist noticed you on here, I thought to myself, "Cool, another lady member who is quick witted, funny and classy. Your subsequent posts have proven otherwise. Another member here recently eluded to your attempts at validation to be transparent....I prefer the term infantile. I won't go down the rabbit hole of your needed online validation, as we all have our mental issues, but I will touch on the manner in which we all have to witness you receiving said validation. Short and sweet, the juvenile methods, expressed in your posts to gain attention from members here, isn't very becoming of someone of your stature.

To go a step further, you never made the comment that you suggested that you would, if I wouldn't tell you how to run your life. This leads me to believe that your post had so substantial content, but was only used as a vessel to get your point across about how upset you are with me.

I'm sorry, but you failed at trying to get under my skin; but you have succeeded in your continuation of displaying tendencies of an immature nature.

Well said. Lady Jane seems to seek some sort of validation, perhaps her parents didn't give her this being in the military, perhaps it is her job where patients just complain, or perhaps it is another reason, but her attempts are tiresome, juvenile, empty and annoying.

I think I might have one person on my ignore list, but if she keeps it up, I will be adding her as well so I no longer have to see her contributions, such as they are as I will not be missing anything.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by rebekahb

@King Rudi

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Just doing what a King Twat does.

I felt that it needed to be said. According to the number of PM's I've received today, I'm not alone.

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Well said. Lady Jane seems to seek some sort of validation, perhaps her parents didn't give her this being in the military, perhaps it is her job where patients just complain, or perhaps it is another reason, but her attempts are tiresome, juvenile, empty and annoying.

I think I might have one person on my ignore list, but if she keeps it up, I will be adding her as well so I no longer have to see her contributions, such as they are as I will not be missing anything.

I have seriously considered the ignore button as well. I always thought I would need to use it over a stalkerish person or someone just causing problems. Never thought I would use it just to not see someone's posts.

Furthermore, grown men do not like being flirted with by a woman in her 40's who acts like an adolescent. Not the type of behavior that attracts men....unless the man is a kiddy feeler. If I were perusing a female that used "he, he, he" in a text, I would never return the text. Eight year old children, even try to act like they are older than their given age. I find it disturbing that a grown, mature woman acts like a child to garner attention.

Cue the passive aggressive pictures and shitty comments. Having a target on my back, for stating what everyone else thinks, is nothing new to me.

[nyalpine90]

there should be BP Deathmatch...

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

there should be BP Deathmatch...

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Verbal fisticuffs to the death!

Seriously, I don't wish anyone anything but sincerity and good vibes. Some people are overly annoying and don't realize that other people being kind, isn't a green light to continue with the behavior. Sometimes it requires someone being a twat for the other party to realize they should stop being an idiot.

There are other females on here that have garnered respect from most everyone, that did not need to resort to this type of 1930's Mae West buffoonery. I've already said more about this topic than what I would have liked. Let's move on get back to dating topics.

Not sure where we are with the Gilligan's Isle topic, but put me down for the director please.

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Not sure where we are with the Gilligan's Isle topic, but put me down for the director please.

Casting hammock?

[Mein11]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Seriously, I don't wish anyone anything but sincerity and good vibes. Some people are overly annoying and don't realize that other people being kind, isn't a green light to continue with the behavior. Sometimes it requires someone being a twat for the other party to realize they should stop being an idiot.

Mostly why I've stopped posting in OT for what you outlined. Everyone deserves good vibes, but some people are assholes (or have other flaws) and should be called out on it. Granted that's gotten me perma-banned 3 times, so it's just watching from the sidelines...., and I'd compare it to watching a Detroit Lions game.

Just as dealing with the general public, not everyone deserves to be respected, if they can't respect others themselves. And using the "I just tell it as it is" excuse is equally stupid.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by UncleWede

Casting hammock?

Nah.....casting is for the amateurs. Direction is for the one's that made it past the hammock. They made the list and in front of the camera....now they just need to let me direct....or I can tell them how to run their life. (Shit, sorry, had to. I'll stop now.)

Originally Posted by Mein11

Mostly why I've stopped posting in OT for what you outlined. Everyone deserves good vibes, but some people are assholes (or have other flaws) and should be called out on it. Granted that's gotten me perma-banned 3 times, so it's just watching from the sidelines...., and I'd compare it to watching a Detroit Lions game.

Just as dealing with the general public, not everyone deserves to be respected, if they can't respect others themselves. And using the "I just tell it as it is" excuse is equally stupid.

Don't get me wrong, I love the OT section. It's not quite the Thunder Dome that it used to be, but it's till good for a laugh and some interesting conversation. I was a retail regional manager for years, I agree 100% with respect and the general public. It seems like every couple of years, someone comes here with an online "persona" they are trying to push. I'm a firm believer that everyone should just be themselves; not to act like some 1980's movie funny person that isn't funny.....that is unless you're real personality is the 1980's movie funny person; if that's the case, still be you, just do it over at the Mustang forums. People expect it there.

I'll stand my ground yes, but I also include myself in the bullshit I spew forth. By no means am I better than anyone else, but if I need to be called out, I accept it, reflect on my behavior and make changes if necessary.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Mein11

And using the "I just tell it as it is" excuse is equally stupid.

Most of the time when someone says "I just tell it like it is" all it means is that they just want everyone to know their opinion.

[Dang3r]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

My last three official dates were with the same LEO Pilot. Any descriptive for that?

Yup, stripe squirrel

[upstatedoc]

Why do you guys have your panties in such a bunch? Lighten up. I thought king Twat was actually kind of funny. Call me a name and I'll call you one. Geez

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

Why do you guys have your panties in such a bunch? Lighten up. I thought king Twat was actually kind of funny. Call me a name and I'll call you one. Geez

How'd you know about my panties?

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Not sure where we are with the Gilligan's Isle topic, but put me down for the director please.

This island needs quality quality control, right? Seeing as how in my actual professional life I pretend to be qualified for QC, I feel I should be the one 'manning' the couch/hammock.

[Sedan_Clan]

My island will be fire, not to be confused with Fyre Island.

[Mein11]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Don't get me wrong, I love the OT section. It's not quite the Thunder Dome that it used to be, but it's till good for a laugh and some interesting conversation.

That's the case with most forums anyways, all the damn kids are stuck on the BookFace and Yourspace.

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Most of the time when someone says "I just tell it like it is" all it means is that they just want everyone to know their opinion.

Exactly. In the south they use "Bless your heart". Like fuck off with all that shit, just say you're a fucking idiot and stop beating around the bush.

Originally Posted by upstatedoc

Why do you guys have your panties in such a bunch? Lighten up. I thought king Twat was actually kind of funny. Call me a name and I'll call you one. Geez

Jokes on you, I don't wear panties, grandpa.

[vreihen16]

Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan

My island will be fire, not to be confused with Fyre Island.

So, it will be in California?????

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by Mein11

That's the case with most forums anyways, all the damn kids are stuck on the BookFace and Yourspace.



Exactly. In the south they use "Bless your heart". Like fuck off with all that shit, just say you're a fucking idiot and stop beating around the bush.



Jokes on you, I don't wear panties, grandpa.

I forgot all about that. Last time I was in NC on a trip I heard someone say that and for a second I was like huh? Then it clicked that the person they were describing they thought was an idiot.

[Tambohamilton]

2. Yeah fair enough! Next!
3. Jeff is scary. So glad you're out of that relationship!
4. Haha, so your date pointed out the pilot? Good wing man (pun intended).

Have a great weekend! Order the drinks with all the sugar!

[fiveohwblow]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

...., just do it over at the Mustang forums. People expect it there.

Daaaaaaamn that cuts me deep. I know you saw my post about what brought me to this forum.


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[M5Rick]

Originally Posted by Sara

Cockpit cockrider I laughed so hard.

Okay, sorry for the delay, hectic week. Allow me to give more details on Wednesday, and I'm sorry if I skipped any replies, I'm pressed for time tonight.

In no particular order:

1. Yes, he (surgeon) did have the disadvantage as I love a good pilot. Dad was a navy pilot and then flew for US Airways/American Airlines for decades so the ground roots have been laid on why I love aviation so much. Always been a flyer, love to travel, etc.

2. Surgeon was the one who asked me out first. Then we canceled. He then texted me last week, I never responded to him. Then he hit me up on IG messages asking when he could take me out, so I accepted the date. I figured, hey, he must really have an interest in meeting me if he's seeking alternate ways to get a response out of me. Wednesday night comes and he's just the hardest person to have a conversation with. I asked him what type of surgery he performs (even though I already knew from his profile), his response was "complicated ones." Then radio silence. Okay, the last surgeon I went out with was more than happy to go into detail about what he does, he was very passionate about his work. This guy, nothing. Then I asked him what his favorite movie is to which he replied with "I don't really know." I said "Do you know your favorite color?" He said "Blue, what's yours, orange?" (I was wearing an orange dress) I said "No, it's also blue." Then again silence. I just felt like he asked me out, take some initiative, ask me some questions! Like, fuck. I felt like I was talking to a wall. It was frustrating me.

3. The sugar question. Rewind to 2017, I dated a guy for years who criticized every single thing I would eat, order, have in my fridge. He would embarrass me at restaurants. I remember ordering some strawberry lemonade alcohol drink once and with the waitress standing there, he looked at me and said "of course you'd order the most sugary drink." So fucking rude. This was the narcissist attorney who randomly flew to DC and showed up at my doorstep while I wasn't home and was angry that I wasn't there, if any of you remember those posts. It got to the point in our relationship where he would order for me. I'm not going down that road again. NEVER again. So when this guy, right out of the gate, asked for the least amount of sugar, it was instant flashbacks and I was thinking, "oh no, not another Jeff, I'm not doing this shit again." Maybe he was a diabetic, and I'm just a bitch for having a flashback, but it just was not a good start for me.

4. The pilot at the next table. I can't remember what I was talking about but surgeon shushed me (because I'm the one doing all the talking at this point), and pointed to the table next to us and said "that guy is talking about a medical procedure." I stopped talking, looked over and started listening in on the date next to us. He was talking about his medical clearance for flying planes! Well, that certainly caught my attention and I was more interested in the date next to me at that point

I'm sure he'll make some woman very happy. He's just not for me.

Did I miss anything? I hope I didn't leave anyone out. Sorry these responses are rushed. I'm away for a bit starting now as it's my baby's birthday weekend!!!

Perhaps another meet and see what he's like then if he's a bit more talkative, people have bad days and could be he had a bad surgeon day and wasn't so clicky? If not then you'll know for sure and may want to move on.

[DocL]

Originally Posted by M5Rick

Perhaps another meet and see what he's like then if he's a bit more talkative, people have bad days and could be he had a bad surgeon day and wasn't so clicky? If not then you'll know for sure and may want to move on.

Some doctors are just self absorbed pricks. I meet a lot of them, and I choose not to socialize or refer my patients to them.

[Sedan_Clan]

Originally Posted by Sara

Cockpit cockrider I laughed so hard.

Okay, sorry for the delay, hectic week. Allow me to give more details on Wednesday, and I'm sorry if I skipped any replies, I'm pressed for time tonight.

In no particular order:

1. Yes, he (surgeon) did have the disadvantage as I love a good pilot. Dad was a navy pilot and then flew for US Airways/American Airlines for decades so the ground roots have been laid on why I love aviation so much. Always been a flyer, love to travel, etc.

2. Surgeon was the one who asked me out first. Then we canceled. He then texted me last week, I never responded to him. Then he hit me up on IG messages asking when he could take me out, so I accepted the date. I figured, hey, he must really have an interest in meeting me if he's seeking alternate ways to get a response out of me. Wednesday night comes and he's just the hardest person to have a conversation with. I asked him what type of surgery he performs (even though I already knew from his profile), his response was "complicated ones." Then radio silence. Okay, the last surgeon I went out with was more than happy to go into detail about what he does, he was very passionate about his work. This guy, nothing. Then I asked him what his favorite movie is to which he replied with "I don't really know." I said "Do you know your favorite color?" He said "Blue, what's yours, orange?" (I was wearing an orange dress) I said "No, it's also blue." Then again silence. I just felt like he asked me out, take some initiative, ask me some questions! Like, fuck. I felt like I was talking to a wall. It was frustrating me.

3. The sugar question. Rewind to 2017, I dated a guy for years who criticized every single thing I would eat, order, have in my fridge. He would embarrass me at restaurants. I remember ordering some strawberry lemonade alcohol drink once and with the waitress standing there, he looked at me and said "of course you'd order the most sugary drink." So fucking rude. This was the narcissist attorney who randomly flew to DC and showed up at my doorstep while I wasn't home and was angry that I wasn't there, if any of you remember those posts. It got to the point in our relationship where he would order for me. I'm not going down that road again. NEVER again. So when this guy, right out of the gate, asked for the least amount of sugar, it was instant flashbacks and I was thinking, "oh no, not another Jeff, I'm not doing this shit again." Maybe he was a diabetic, and I'm just a bitch for having a flashback, but it just was not a good start for me.

4. The pilot at the next table. I can't remember what I was talking about but surgeon shushed me (because I'm the one doing all the talking at this point), and pointed to the table next to us and said "that guy is talking about a medical procedure." I stopped talking, looked over and started listening in on the date next to us. He was talking about his medical clearance for flying planes! Well, that certainly caught my attention and I was more interested in the date next to me at that point

I'm sure he'll make some woman very happy. He's just not for me.

Did I miss anything? I hope I didn't leave anyone out. Sorry these responses are rushed. I'm away for a bit starting now as it's my baby's birthday weekend!!!

Happy birthday to your little one. Thanks for the update. The breakdown adds a bit more clarity.

Originally Posted by Tambohamilton

2. Yeah fair enough! Next!
3. Jeff is scary. So glad you're out of that relationship!
4. Haha, so your date pointed out the pilot? Good wing man (pun intended).

Have a great weekend! Order the drinks with all the sugar!

This!!!! Jeff was a tool and a half for sure.