If you don't mind me offering advice, you probably realize that any sort of religious overtones such as abstinence could fall on deaf ears depending on your relationship with her and could cause her to reject you or your beliefs. This is common. There is not only peer pressure at this age, but curiosity which no matter what you do, including all sorts of education cannot overcome. Now, I am not telling you to do anything and it certainly matters what sort of personality your teen girl has, but we put our daughter on the pill in her junior year because we came to grips with reality. Unless you wish to make your child a prisoner, its best to discuss not only sex, but birth control.
Bill
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