[TboneS54]

I work in family law and your story is very familiar, unfortunately. As men, we must take certain precautions and educate ourselves on how the system, law (and culture) work re the family.

Ironically, it seems to be the increase in "alternative family structures" (2 men or 2 women or 3 people of differing sexual orientations/identities) that I believe is actually making it easier on men. Things are becoming less traditional. The percentage of men getting full custody or more custody is growing.

But yes, absolutely take your time in picking a partner! Things change when they have a kid, they just do. Is your girl well rounded and disciplined enough to handle it? It can get ugly fast.

Take note, 20 y/os.