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Originally Posted by Alfisti
This. This is what worries me. I am by far the firmer one, realising I am raising two boys who will one day be men, i let them have fun but she just spoils them and doesn't discipline.
I definitely see myself becoming the bad guy and losing them whilst some slime ball slide sin trying to parent them.
I also feel with this "there's 31 legal genders" bullshit that i need to step in and correct the state with my boys, she won't do it.
She make smore than me so not worried about being shafter financially.
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I did deal with this once about 2 years after our divorce. She had some p.o.s. that she went on a date with on a Friday night and when I dropped my boys off at their mothers on Sunday he was moved in with her.
A few weeks later the ex-wife had bought an inflatable pool. My boys and his daughter were all playing in the pool. My youngest son who is incredibly soft-hearted apparently splashed his daughter in the face and she started crying. This soon to be struggling for his life piece of shit, held my sons head under the water and started yelling at him.
When I showed up to pick up my boys, the youngest was still crying. He explained to me what happened before we left her house. I instantly went to the door and rang the bell. She answered the door and he refused to come to the front of the house; he was hiding out back. After me explaining to her that if he ever touched my child again, I'd hold his head under the water. I then acted like I was leaving and walked around the side of the house and took him by surprise. Grabbed him by his throat and shoved him up against the wall. Leaned in close to his hear and spoke very quietly and sternly and said, "If you ever touch my child again, no one will ever find your body." It took everything I had not to completely wreck his shit. The only reason I didn't is because his daughter was there and my boys were watching.
By the time I dropped my kids off on Sunday he had moved out.