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Originally Posted by Not_Judy
Very difficult indeed. My e-wife and I had joint custody for the past 10 years until my two sons were told they could do whatever they wanted at her house. My house was riddled with chores and responsibility. They quickly stopped coming to my house. I've seen my boys on average maybe 7-10 a year for the past 3 years.
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This. This is what worries me. I am by far the firmer one, realising I am raising two boys who will one day be men, i let them have fun but she just spoils them and doesn't discipline.
I definitely see myself becoming the bad guy and losing them whilst some slime ball slide sin trying to parent them.
I also feel with this "there's 31 legal genders" bullshit that i need to step in and correct the state with my boys, she won't do it.
She make smore than me so not worried about being shafter financially.