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Originally Posted by dinonz
Yes - but you're 20-mumble. I just turned 50. I have more hair where it's not supposed to be than you care to hear about, and less where it's supposed to be than you want to hear about.
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true, i think i'll be ok without that knowledge
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Originally Posted by dinonz
I guess there's a whole backstory to much of this that's hard to explain, but I've spent 4 years supporting friends at a great cost to me, and I'm finally free - and it looks like I'm going down the same path all over again. She and I have some middle ground (wine) but I'm still trying to find "what else". For various reasons I have lost interest in a lot of things over the years, so maybe this is more of a problem for me to work out for me than about us. I don't know. I just know she likes the D. A lot.
And no - you're not an elitist dickhead. A little young, but you have a good head on your shoulders. No comment regarding elsewhere.
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the first part brings this question to my mind: what are you really looking for? a wife-kinda deal or just someone nice to spend time with but also open to options?
im generally very impulsive about this stuff, at the slightest bad gut feeling i'll talk it out with my boys (which generally ends up as groupthink) and generally move on. depending on your answer to the question above you'll figure out where to go with this
and wine could be a good middle ground, but how do you guys get along past bedroom activities? is there anything you guys talk about, or is it just "hey how was your day" "long and hard hbu" "yeah mine was okay but you know what else is long and hard?"
and - this is straight up stereotyping, but what level does she teach? i'd argue kindergarten teachers are WAY different than, say, high school teachers