First of all, into more than 20 years being part of my company there were several opportunities to make a side swing into different departments. I have ever refused to get in touch with a female coworker because I had seen often enough the bitter end and then the trouble to avoid each other, when too much china was broken.
For me it was always knocked in stone never ever let a coworker into my closer circle. I had never understood other colleagues who are married to a coworker and share almost into the vincinity the same space.
But onto the flipside: If you are working long enough with the same person and let it through, that both sides are got a deeper look behind the scenes and maybe talk about private things, hobbies and so on, then you could encounter something completely different and I wasn't prepared for the fact, that the time factor let slipped me in this situation.
As you could read below, she is married and I don't care how lucky or not, I would never insist under these circumstances and keep my thoughts by me, in probably opposite way for good.
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She is a real cutie, intelligent, clever and got multi-interested into personal developement and never stands still to improve her skills. Best of all: She wouldn't be never a mother in any way. Worst of all: She is married to a colleague
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What is her sitzfleisch situation like?
Best way to deal with it is go to your nearest gym. Sing anti-hero whilst you give the ladies free tickets to the gun show. We know this works.
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Sitzfleisch? Dude, adjust your translator
This means in German the maximum ability to say seated onto the same place, no matter how hard or bad this would be. Or also into another way to express "endurance" into a more loose way so to speak.
A gym would be the last hunting area for me, really.
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Originally Posted by Watching The World Burn
Careful, she might be another Maegan Hall.
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No way man, shes married though, but not into open waters like the mentioned persons there.